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Believe in Yourself, and Follow The Path of Your Truth ~ June 14, 2017


By Sophie Gregoire, 06/14/2017

“People can walk the way with you, but nobody can walk the way for you”. Rumi

You have reached a space where you have clarity and awareness about what is TRUE FOR YOU and what isn’t. 

You keep listening to others, sometimes. You keep thinking that they KNOW more than you do, or that there are other souls out there that are more advanced, more evolved, that have been on the path for a longer while but it’s not really about that now.

You now feel drawn to activities, people, places or to a sense of soul identity, of remembrance, of belonging and if it feels right, then it just feels right and those that don’t agree don’t have to agree with you or to give you permission to be who you are.

This is a time when, again, you’ll feel that we all are different. That’s ok.

What YOU now feel drawn to explore is what you should follow through.

There are other ways of seeing things, as always. There are other people and they find joy, meaning and belonging in other things. The path of a given man doesn’t have to be yours. We all play different games in this world and those have with different rules, playgrounds, players, justifications or reasons, and that’s alright.

We are drawn to different types of stories, of explanations about life, of things that make sense of not, of healing methods — nobody is right or wrong, people are just different.

Remember that the right “healers” are those who bring you back to yourself, rather than telling you HOW to become. 

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We encourage you now to keep following YOUR OWN WAY.

Rather than trying to fit in the boxes or teachings of other souls (even if those are “spiritual”, or came up in your life recently as you were already “awakened”) we encourage you to keep walking your way and find those people who see things like you do. 

Because if you try to ADAPT, you may lose part of your truth and personal power to belong — while TRUE BELONGING doesn’t want you to change, doesn’t see you as smaller or as a “less evolved”.

True belonging sees you for who you are, takes you how youa re, with your qualities and flaws but doesn’t want to establish hierarchies between you and them — true belonging is a team of EQUALS GROWING IN SHARED VALUES. 

What’s meant for you doesn’t want you to change, to abandon parts of you, to reshape your beliefs, to make you unbecome.

True belonging walks with you, either they let you be in your own rules or they simply share the same.

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There is a difference between GROWTH and TRANSFORMATION FORCED BY THE EXTERNAL.

Growth just happens, just is. Growth is when you feel from WITHIN the call to do this or that, the desire to explore this or that connection, learning, activity. Growth is a pull FROM WITHIN to reach OUT. Growth is when you decide, out of the blue, to follow the flow from within you and take action towards this or that, even if it is the unknown and feels “scary” or uncomfortable.

Growth is when you follow yourself even if this takes you to newness, GROWTH IS WHEN YOU EXPLORE THOSE THINGS THAT YOUR SOUL IS LEADING YOU TO.

Growth means unsettled often times YES, but not unsettled like pulled, dragged here or there because someone called or because the sense of self, of ability to lead one’s way is dying… No, growth is unsettled if and in the manners that your soul, your heart, your flow is leading you to.

GROWTH is the ability of leading one’s way, THE ABILITY OF INNER MASTERY IN THE UNFOLDING UNKNOWN OF THE SACRED PLAN.

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What’s next is found in the depth, in the mysterious places of the inner connection… and from there the right ideas are born. 

The path forward is found by dropping within oneself to feel what’s right, what sounds like “fulfilling” and true and from there the right “action” just comes to one’s mind when the time is right.

Dear ones, we encourage you not to lose your sense of self, worth and values through these unsettling times. 

Yes the path is TRANSFORMATION, but it doesn’t have to hurt or to see you change in a way that doesn’t feel right or TRUE to yourself.

TRANSFORMATION IS THOSE CHANGES THAT COME FROM WITHIN AND FEEL RIGHT, INSPIRING, CAPTIVATING.

Dear ones, believe in yourself. Your abilities, knowing of the self and understanding of the world are ENOUGH to lead you forward. 

Your TEAM is found in those places where you feel at peace, empowered, tall because free to be your authentic self, to play the rules of your sacred game and to speak your own beliefs, values and words.

Your team is found where you can be your truest, most empowered, beautiful self. 

Much love, 

Sophia

Find me on FB or www.aheroinespath.com. 

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The Mature Masculine and The Mature Feminine ~ June 8, 2017


By Sophie Gregoire, 06/08/2017

The mature Masculine and the mature Feminine.

Before maturity often times comes immaturity.

The immature Feminine is a match to the immature Masculine.

As long as the Masculine closes their heart, can’t share about their feelings, desires, fears, expectations or goals in a bond — the Feminine develops fears herself because she doesn’t understand, and therefore can’t flow freely, open, vulnerable and uncovered in the relationship because it doesn’t feel safe. 

Likewise if the Feminine goes to the Masculine because she needs him to be supported or to know what to do, the masculine feels he can’t truly be vulnerable, or he is there for support rather than love, so this means being committed and contractual rather than happily, freely flowing for exploration, love and sensuality.

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When one of the partner comes to the bond with anxiety of not deserving it, of being unworthy of love generally, when they come in the connection with a fear of abandonment, of loss or of being hurt… Meaning when they enter the field of the relationship from an inner place of INCOMPLETENESS, they also call as a mirror the incomplete/wounded frequencies of their partner.

In that case the fear that’s contained in one of both make them show outwardly and behave from a needy place — because they can’t trust that the relationship could develop in a flowing, healthy, happy way.

OR they decide to withdraw because it’s scary to dive in such a vulnerable thing without being SURE this will “work out”.

Thus, both needy behaviours and unhealthy, fast, unexplained withdrawals come from a place of fear of being hurt, or of love not working — and both unfold as mirrors, the Feminine often embodying the needy and the Masculine the withdrawal (emotional or physical). 

The needy behaviour of one, triggers the withdrawal of the other because it feels suffocating and shows a less mature, full aspect of their lover
— as well as the withdrawal of one causes the neediness in the other, who tries to catch, keep, chase the other at all cost to understand and name things.

In relationships, fear calls fears — and the wounded frequencies of one manifest the wounded frequencies of their partner.

While partners enter a relationship from a place of not feeling complete, happy, safe, loved, cared for ON THEIR OWN — they will expect more from the bonding than just love : support, being saved, feeling in their power, knowing what to do, feeling stronger because this person is “a good catch etc.” so the relationship will less flow, give and receive love freely without need or expectation of restitution, but on the opposite develop from a place of love blended with self-needs, self-care of self-indulgment.

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On the opposite the more Mature Masculine draws in a more version of the Feminine. Both have a mature sense of self and power and know how to rely on themselves to be.

They therefore enter a bonding from a place of interest, joy, exploration, desires, draw, smiles, shared adventures or sensuality RATHER THAN from a place of self-help or melting as one in order to thrive more.

The latest is the New Paradigm.

Much love ️

Sophia

www.aheroinespath.com and find me on FB! 

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Energy Update – Your Goals Are Clear and The Intention is Strong ~ June 2, 2017


By Sophie Gregoire, 06/02/2017

Current energies — People’s ways with you could only be the mirror of where they are at, or an expression of their own perception of things. But there is an intention, a dream, something YOU have tried to attract to your life for awhile now. Hidden behind all the goals you were showing or speaking of — that was your true goal, the destination of your heart, in truth.

Your persisting efforts and commitment to growth have already brought to you manifestations, examples, possibilities, signals saying “It’s harvest time soon”.

Keep walking, keep doing all you can to become everyday a greater version of Yourself than yesterday… It has been a few weeks of you moving in a very new direction. Keep it up. You are doing great by attracting to you, through deliberated action or energetic draw, the physical rewards of the empowerment and revelations that took place in the past months within You.

Keep walking, keep showing up outwardly without attaching to one of these manifestations… It’s all about you, the outside is just showing you where you are at. Don’t settle before you know, you feel that you’ve arrived.

You’re back out there, outwardly… but you’ll make sure the world and people aren’t a distraction from your path by checking in with yourself if things truly feel right, by practising regularly finding and connecting with your own inner temple and knowledge and by exploring, more and free, your own personal adventure.

Your goals are clear and the intention is strong. Let it lead the way, and know that the New is only starting. ✨🙏❤️

Love,
Sophie
I offer intuitive readings and private sessions,

contact me at sophieanna.gregoire@gmail.com or there www.aheroinespath.com.

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Twin Flames Message ~ Learn to Love Without Need or Desire of Restitution ~ May 31, 2017


By Sophie Gregoire, 05/31/2017

“To love without need or without expectation of restitution, that is how we ought to love” ~ Criss Jami

Lately Twin Flames and namely the Feminine side of the bond (most often Feminine energies are represented by women in the relationship, but not always) has healed, found strength and learned to love freely in the ethers their beloved Twin Flames. 

This happened as a result of all the work that has been done to heal the heartbreak. Remember, we have tried it as much as we could, said everything, put all the disappointment, the love and the beauty we longed for on the table — until it was crsytal clear that it is not happening, or at least not now.

We have learned to forgive, develop compassion and the caring, nurturing, healing energy of “maybe they love me too, maybe even they love me as much as I do but for some reason this isn’t working, they don’t want it and that’s fine and I still love them deeply for who they are even if I get “nothing”” — that was a big step as We, or the most “attached” Twin Flame of the pair, or the “Chaser” ultimately saw that love is also to Respect other people’s choices and being able to say “I’ll be happy if you’re happy, even if this is somewhere else or with someone else”. 

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The “Chaser” Twin Souls have therefore started to believe that they were more ready than their counterpart as they had healed, understood and forgiven or found their strenght, power, inspiration and fire again and even after such a heartbreak. They started to think that enough space had been cleared within them from the past of that relationship — so the relationship could start again. But as their counterpart didn’t come back… they started to believe that their Mirror were the Unready side of the Coin while they were, on their side, Ready and sort of 100% healed.

But this is a new step now, and a lot more is to actually to be learned by Both Sides of the Pair.

First, the “Runner” will eventually and when the time is right for them, go as deep as the “Chaser” already had because of the relationship and the hurt it is causing by not happening in the physical. 

Cronologically, it’s common to see one side of the pair going through the Dark Night of the soul first — which is itself generated by the struggles of the Twin Flame’s relationship — but the other side of the pair is expected in this life, if they accept their soul’s mission, to dive as deep within as their counterpart… which will happen when the time is right.

The “Runner” is therefore expected to dive deeper into themselves, see more of their own truth and patterns — even if this will most likely brings as always discomfort and a desire to run away from reality, former failures or pittfalls. This Twin Soul’s next adventure will be found most importantly within, by seeing the truth of where they are at and accepting the life’s lessons they have received so far even if they didn’t always accept to see. 

Not all of them will accept that mission, however. They have no “obligation” to do so — but this is their next step if they accept the calling to heal, grow, and do the work that their soul has received in this life. 

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Besides, there is US. Shall I say “me”, or the ones like me — the Chasers. 

We think “they haven’t done the work yet”. We sometimes still blame them for not being who we want them to be, when we wanted it so bad, and exactly they way we Expected.

This, is because we now have a lot more to learn… which is loving, romantically, strongly and from a place of being already complete and self-reliant within BUT in the physical. Yes this is what we have felt like doing with our Twins as we have healed from the heartbreak BUT this didn’t lead to a true, landed, physical relationships where we could practice in the tangible what we have learned.

The truth is, we never got the change to practice in the physical a love based on no need, no unhealthy attachment or expectation about what the outside world should do to make us feel saved or happy.

We feel that we “know” how to do this, but we still have to practice what it is to love when we don’t need anymore emotional support, help on the journey, financial contribution or sexual healing through another.

And, the Ether and the Physical are very different realms, as for love.

My personal experience is yes, I do love my Twin “freely” — meaning no matter where he is at, what he is doing, who he loves or doesn’t love and etc. and I feel I’d be super happy to see him anytime as I have “forgiven” (this makes me smile now, because the truth is he never did anything wrong… it was just me and my expectations, fantaisies, dreams for us both…) BUT when a real man is in my very physical life, right there in the room and I start to develop feelings, desires, or a longing for us both to become more, things are different. 

I’m seeing that in the very tangible world, I can still have expectations or feel attachment, or even a longing for them to make me feel better in some way. Less than before of course, even a lot less, but still… Practice is needed ❤

As “Chasers” our next step could be to learn to love freely in the physical and with someone new. Which may be, I must say, very different, at least for me — from doing it energetically, from afar with someone who lives on the other side of the world, or in the beautiful world of words.

Blessings, 

Sophie

www.thetwinflamejourney.com

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Time For Your Rewards in The Physical ~ May 28, 2017


By Sophie Gregoire, 05/28/2017

Something that you longed for is now available. You had prayed for it, you had even tried to match the energy of it before you could actually see.

You did the work, that’s why your rewards in the physical are coming closer.
Be prepared to take leaps, and know that it’s very safe to move now – there is a happy, sunny trampoline awaiting below.

What’s on approach isn’t the repetition of past dramas or a feeling of “it’s not aligned” you see – but a brand-new tangible world or people. Those share your vision, desires, purpose, smile, depths, calling – possibly not just a part of it.

This is just how magic works… Life is finding You because YOU are now ready, because you’ve committed to let go of what weighed down on you.

Walk in complete trust. What’s unfolding around you is simply the reflection of an inner state of being ready… 🙏✨💚💫

Much love
Sophie Gregoire

sophieanna.gregoire@gmail.com
www.aheroinespath.com

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