Destiny ~ Your Contract ~ December 11, 2018


Via: Kejraj

Greetings to You! From heart to heart in this moment we speak, I am KejRaj(KayRy). The information expressed here is that of my perspective, my point of view. For all truth awaits you in your heart. Tune in to the light within you.

Today we begin by saying this; one of the most dreary things you can tell a person today is that they are here for a reason. There isn’t one person that at one point or another in their life hasn’t heard that or something similar to. People don’t want to know or they all ready know they are here for a reason, but they want to know THE REASON. And that is not an easy one to figure out for anyone.

We have destiny and freewill, these too always interact, in every lifetime. From our understanding, only MAJOR events in one’s life are pre-destined. Everything else is up to you. At times, though it is rare, even these major events may change based on your actions or the will of the Divine.

This brings us to YOU, the star children, the old souls, and whatever term that is used to define this group of people who have CHOSEN this path.

Please notice how we said CHOSEN. YOU chose your destiny, but perhaps you have forgotten this. Or did destiny choose you? You decide this in a few moments.

Why are you referred to as a Starchild or as an Old Soul? For one, you come from the stars, so does everyone else. But, you have traveled the Universe a whole lot more than most people on Earth. You are an Old Soul, in terms of experience. You became an individualized soul millions of years before most people on Earth and some of you before Earth herself.

The plan was laid out, the Universe knew what had to change and the place was chosen where all this shall unfold. So an invitation was sent out, an echo heard in the stars. Who was willing to leave everything behind, including all memory of one’s previous lessons, one’s mastery, and descend upon the Earth.

This is when millions and millions of souls volunteered for this mission, and YOU the Old Soul were one of the millions. But volunteering was not enough, it was not entirely up to you if you get to take part in this or not. You had to be chosen by the Higher Councils, for this was a great endeavor, not for the fainthearted as the saying goes.

In simple terms we can say you have done it all, and this is why you were chosen. Not only to bring light to a world that was seemingly stuck in the abyss, but to PERMANENTLY lift this world out of darkness into the light, and with this act and mission lift up the entire galaxy and beyond to a higher vibration.

Here we are now, yes we can say nearing the completion of the mission. We know you will say but it doesn’t feel like I did anything to change anything. And we say your presence alone has caused this world to change. You have done great works, not only in this lifetime but in many lifetimes here on Earth. Also, the way this world is about to change in the next seven years alone, such enormous change has not occurred in the past one hundred years.

Once again it is YOU who will step forward, this time as leaders of the new world. This is the lightholder’s destiny. You cannot and will not escape this next wave of change, for not only does your soul seek to be of service, but also you chose and were chosen to accomplish what at one point was deemed impossible by the Galactic Community.

In the very near future you will again be called, hear the echo, to step forward and give this world the final push it needs to uplift into the 5th Dimension, and you will once again respond. We now approach a most intriguing timeline.

From heart to heart, I am Kejraj!

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Mike Quinsey ~ It is Time for Humanity to Come of Age


By Mike Quinsey, Channeling his Higher Self, 01/05/2018

Another year has passed quicker than ever, full of events that have given you a tremendous lift for what is coming. As the years have flown by since the present Age commenced in 2012 so things are starting to take shape that will signal the reality of the New Age. So to say, the dust has settled and now you should be able to see the beginning of changes that are going to carry you forward. As you must already be aware, much is being held back until the right time to be released, and that really means the safe time. After all of the planning and preparations that have been made they will not be spoilt by rushing them into being. Indeed, there are a number of issues involved and as long as everything is done at the appropriate time, you will enjoy a period of great upliftment. The last thing that is needed is the interference from those who would rather maintain the old energies. Their efforts to do so no longer carry any real power and they are destined to failure. They are the architects of their own demise and will be left to experience the result of their chosen activities.

Dear Ones never lose sight of the fact that you are well past the marker of 2012 and ever since that time, many Lightworkers have been able to progress and prepare for the times to come. Much has already been prepared so that when circumstances permit, you will be able to enjoy the prospect of many advancements that can commence in comparative safety. Then you shall see what you have been waiting for and Humanity will be overjoyed at the results. By focussing on the future you will be helping to speed up it’s manifestation, because you do have a hand in determining how things work out. Naturally there are always greater powers that control events and protect Humanity so that their decisions are honoured. After all, it is you who have helped pave the way forward and passed the marker that allowed Humanity to continue progressing in the higher vibrations.

The surprise for you was having left the old vibrations behind, you also gained a new start with as you would say “a clean sheet” with none of the old energies remaining. The most exciting prospect is the eventual appearance of a number of Extraterrestrials who are strongly associated with the Human Race. They have followed your progress for thousands of years and helped you along, without infringing your freewill. You may be new souls in terms of time as you know it, but in reality you are very old souls that have been around for eons of time. As Human Beings you are adding to your existing experience, so that eventually you can become mentors to others who can benefit from it. It is normal for those who have become well advanced to help others who follow on, and can benefit from their experience. Can you see how eventually groups grow bigger and bigger, as more evolved souls join them.

In reality you are helped to evolve at every step you take that carries you onwards and upwards. Bear in mind that at a certain point in your evolution, you will all become Beings of Light, and dispense with whatever physical form you had previously. However, where needs arise you can “think” yourself into whatever form of body you need. Even now you are beginning to develop the power of creation, and it means that as the vibrations continue to lift up, Humanity will have a greater say in how it evolves. It is why we have already given you a cautionary note to be positive about what you wish for, as you can never be sure how it will turn out in the future. Obviously when you evolve to the point where your thoughts are centred upon the needs of others, you will have realised that many evolved souls can also foresee your needs, and if necessary meet them providing they are essential for your continued evolution.

It has been a very long time since you reached this point in your evolution. Take it with both hands and more than ever before, focus on what you want out of life as you now have every chance of being successful. Bear in mind that much of what we talk about is your potential as your time line is opening up before you, and exactly what path it takes is down to your collective focus. Some may wonder how the dark Ones are kept at bay, and we have to say whilst they are still a threat but their power is being curtailed. They will continue to be denied the resources they have previously plundered from others, and funding their operations will be found to be their Achilles heel. There is no way that they will be able to indefinitely fund their activities, as many of those channels are being closed.

Humanity is being given a massive opportunity to pave the way to Ascension, so that all souls that are ready to ascend can claim success. Naturally we talk of events that are to come, and in some cases quite a few years away. In some instances the timing is out of your hands as the bigger picture entails much organization that reaches out to your friends in Space, who are pleased to help you succeed. Many of you have already gone through Ascension in former lives, but have come back to offer your experience where needed. Be assured that your Galactic friends are only too pleased to help you on your path to becoming Galactic Beings.

It is time for Humanity to come of age, and so much help is waiting to step out of the shadows. Your success in overcoming the lower vibrations was as you might say “touch and go” and those of you who are already of the Light played a considerable part in helping lift up the vibrations. Having reached this stage, there is absolutely no reason why you should not go from strength to strength, and no way that you should have to experience the lower vibrations again. The immediate plan covers reduction in hostilities between nations, and many of your Indigo children are now young adults fully equipped to handle the problems being experienced on Earth. They are old souls with so much experience, and will see solutions to problems that presently seem unsurmountable. Your future will be safe in their hands, and they will come to the fore at the right time.

With each New Year much is promised, and slowly but surely people will step forward when they see they have the answers to age old problems that are holding up progress. You will not have long to wait to identify the “new ones” who came to Earth in great numbers specifically to help Humanity. With help from such evolved Beings coming to Earth in greater numbers, the future looks very bright. So take note of their opinions, because the young ones are old souls who have come specifically to help Humanity through the challenges that are yet to come. You cannot fail unless many of you go “Off the Rails” and with so much help that is not a prospect that will even be considered.

I leave you with love and blessings, and may the Light brighten your days and path to completion. This message comes through my Higher Self.

In Love and Light.

Mike Quinsey.

Website: Tree of the Golden Light

Many thanks to all of the Dear Ones who freely give of their time and are dedicated to circulating the messages of Light and Love. Have a great New Year and may you get all that you would wish yourself.
In Love and Light. Mike Quinsey.

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Kryon Reveals How The Pleiadians Plan to Accelerate The Awakening of Humanity ~ Sept. 9, 2012


This is a recording of Kryon teaching us about our future. Human awarenesses are becoming more comfortable with “old souls” beginning to see past the veil. Pleiadian time capsules, pairing of nodes, Solutions are becoming more available. The crystalline grid is changing…

Curious? Please listen to this recording, understand our future is unfolding NOW, and…

InJoy!

Rewriting the Past: We Get What We Expect via Kryon ~ Nov. 13, 2016


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Found this article today on Starship Earth: The Big Picture and it really works for me! Kryon comes to us with a message, but here you can read the message, understand it’s time for humanity to rise up from the darkness of the past, and…

InJoy!

KryonI’m Kryon of magnetic service.

This morning. We ask you to feel the wind of truth. It’s a metaphor; when you feel the wind blows often in a gentle way that’s refreshing and that’s the way the truth is of this shift. You’re looking at new energies that you have never had before presented to you in different ways. Years ago we spoke of the recalibration energy. You have passed through that and now comes the work.

So many of you have asked this very day. What’s next, what should I do? What’s possible? Because this is new dear ones, the manual for what’s next hasn’t been written, but there are things we can ask you to do that are so able to be done and it has to be done by old souls.

Now this is an overview, it’s a generality that I’m giving you. It’s not a specific. So let’s talk about the specifics first, which is backwards. You ask what you’re gonna do next. What are we supposed to do? What is that which is in the plan for you and almost all of you we say to you, you are unique. So it may be different for each of you, but there is one thing that we’re going to start asking for and you are going to hear it more and more. Old soul, in this new energy things are going to come to you. Watch for the synchronicity. Don’t pass it up.

When you hear ideas, when you meet people, when somebody says let’s go over here and do something and you’ve never done it before, that is synchronicity. And the second thing we would say to you is that in the synchronicity that you will meet, see it for what it is, because that’s what you should do. What brought you here to this room for those of you sitting here, what’s the synchronicity?

Not all of you said oh yes I’m going to go to this meeting. Let’s buy a ticket now. In fact, there’s a lot of you that did not happen at all. And here you sit to hear these messages of hope and truth. Can you feel the wind blowing? Things are changing, dear ones; and the second large thing we ask of you individually is to be patient.

Human beings, when they start feeling the energies and realize the ah ha of truth are so excited and they want to act now. It’s almost like you’re going to run out of time and you’re not. Be patient; let the things develop as they come to you. You’ll know what to do with them. We told you over and over.

It’s time to start practicing mastery, to treat others differently, all, all of these things. That’s what you’re here for. We said before, those of you who are sitting around expecting a plan, what am I supposed to do? “ and we said before, what if you’re already doing it?

What if your very existence anchors energy for those around you? What if you’re playing a part you don’t even know you’re playing simply by being you around others who are watching you? What if that’s why you’re here? You realize the importance of that, of who you’re touching your changing. so it’s not like you think; it’s not a linear, “What am I to do?”

And yet, I’m going to ask you for something now, all of you. All of those listening to my voice. All of those in the room. There really is something you can do. My partner touched on an energy. You might call it a scenario that is going on right now on this planet.

The very thing I’m going to discuss is something that is holding you back from the evolution that we speak of, from the wildcards that are coming, for the inventions we told you you need – things that are being developed and are ready right now are being held up by what I’m going to tell you.

It’s very real, what my partner was telling you that most of this planet is still in an ” expectation of doom” mode.

Most wherever you go, there is this feeling of what you have called, waiting for the other shoe to drop. You’re overdue for doom. You’re overdue for the world war that was given to you as prediction after prediction after prediction.

It is so odd; everything around you says it’s changed, everything. If you will take a look at the wars that you had, the last world war and the one before. Take a look at who the players were; now take a look at what they’re doing. They drop their borders. They are trading with one another.

The scenario for the next war is not there, yet you expect it. Take a look at all that is around you. It is not then yelling at you ” You’re going to have a war.” There’s so much more. It’s giving you the evidence that’s not what’s going to happen at all. And why is it that you feel like it’s coming. Now, those listening to my voice, old souls; those in the room, old souls.

You are awakening to a grander truth for the planet,
a truth that doesn’t just belong to a niche amount of believers.
It’s for the whole planet.
Therefore, I’m telling you something that involves the whole planet.
But the old souls are the graduates.
You have most of the experience;
you have profound consciousness that can change energy.

The world is expecting doom. The books that have been written about the fractals tell you about the ripples of time that repeat themselves, that yell to you that there’s going to be problems, there’s going to be war; that yell to you your economy is going to collapse at any moment.

There are seeds of truth in the ripples. Let me tell you something, perhaps you’ve figured out or not. The ripples of an old energy are dangerous to you dangerous because if enough human beings buy into the old energy, it’s going to slow things down and some of them will occur.

Now you know what I would ask you to do. I want you to start spreading the word to everybody you know who would ask you, who would mention it in idle passing or not. Shape your words, for a good future. Don’t buy into this. Don’t be persuaded that something awful has to occur.

Dear ones, the prophecies have come and gone. You are in the clear.

But the ripples are still there of the old energy.

When you hear those speak of it. You can tell them this.

Well, it didn’t happen. We got a good future ahead.

They will start giving you chapter and verse of the old energy. They’ll tell you what has happened and therefore and therefore. They’ll pull the politics of the day into it, they’ll say and therefore and therefore. And you don’t have to convince them. All you have to do is show them you don’t agree. In a loving way, you can say, ” yeah, I don’t think so. I feel something good is coming.”

Old souls carry weight. You carry with your family, with your children, with your friends, with your colleagues. And the weight you carry is because of who you are and who they see in you. Are you a person who is slow to anger, who is quick to love? Are you a person who is not showing their age as much? Are you a person who has more energy than you should for your age? Are you a person that they will look at and they will say I don’t know what you got but I like it. They’re gonna listen to you, old soul.

Anyone who listens to my voice. I’m going to call it a name. I want you to rewrite the past. The old ripples of time that say that you are overdue for something was written in an old energy; you are rewriting that energy. You have seen the prophecies of an older time drop away. The Mayan calendar told you that old history and time was over. The new calendar that has been put up by the Maya says that history is going to go into a place nobody expected, that a new long count is here and that human consciousness can go into an evolved state higher than it’s ever been. Where is that realization? I will tell you, it’s only with the wise ones. And that’s you. You come to a meeting like this to get excited because you hear the facts, you see the physics, you hear the predictions, and you walk out the door and you know, absolutely know that things are different and the shift is here and there’s a chance that humanity will pull out of this faster than you know.

That’s the first thing we ask you to do, but the second thing? Well, it may be backwards, dear ones. I do that a lot. Even the logic is in a circle. One thing leads to another. One thing builds on another. There are those listening to my voice that still don’t believe it. How are you going to live in a way that’s going to tell others to expect good things are coming; how are you going to rewrite this past if you haven’t really cognized it; if you don’t believe it? You say, well Kryon, that should have been the first thing. No, I wanted to give you the most profound thing first.

You’re gonna have to change the past;

you’re going to have to avoid the ripple

and that can only be done by high consciousness groups of individuals

who are spreading the word in their own way

of a bright future for this planet,

a better consciousness.

You have to cognize it. You are going to have to believe it for yourself. You’re gonna have to know it’s different. It’s got to be your truth. So strong does it have to be that it competes with your belief system of whether gravity is real and not, whether when you drop something it’ll fall on the floor or not. That’s how cognizing works. It has to be part of your cellular structure. That’s why I’m here. I’m here, to carry humanity into a brighter future and to void out those ripples, those old energy things that we have felt coming and are still here. The earth is still expecting to terminate.

“Kryon, what do we do about that?”

Well if you just wait, it’ll go away. But that’s not what you want is it? Generation after generation will eventually clear the ripples– you are already starting to see it with the indigos. They’re not buying into an old energy system. One of those things they’re not buying into is the ripples. Are you going to wait for another generation and another and perhaps another before you can move forward? Or are you gonna start getting active?

“Kryon, I don’t really understand. What am I supposed to do, shout it from the rooftop?”

I’ll tell you what you are supposed to do. You watch because suddenly in your life you will have synchronicity to open your mouth. It will come from various sources and you remember this moment and you’ll smile because you say, “here it is.” Somebody will say to you, “do you believe this election? Do you believe what’s going on here; do you believe how bad all of this energy is?” What do you say normally? ” yeah it’s bad; I see it.” Or do you say, “I recognize it and you know what?

The next one is going to be different. Things are changing. It’s going to get better. You just wait.” You say that, dear one; how many people will take that and repeat it? You see what you’ve done? At every single time you get the synchronicity to state a bright future, how many times have people complained to you or saw that you were a listener– and you are– and they come to you and they say, ” things are not going well”, what do you say?

What should come out of your mouth immediately, “That’s today; just wait for tomorrow. And if you will do this, and if you will believe this and if you will then find the God inside, perhaps you’ll find the joy to understand that humanity is headed for a bright future. You can go faster if you do that. You gotta believe it. Believe it, before it can be passed on.

This is the first time I have broached this, that now your job gets harder. You called yourself a light worker; turn on the light. You’re going to find moment after moment after moment presented to you [wherein] you didn’t even recognize what you are saying or doing.

Or you can turn it around in a benevolent way– and not argumentative– and you can say yes I see the election isn’t that interesting. It’s going to be something different next time. Then after that even next time. You can say is that interesting to watch and see the old energy we never saw before.

And now we can start cleaning up. People will walk away saying either. That’s a wise old cheerful person, even if you’re young, or they’ll say that’s a Pollyanna and they walk away and do whatever they wish. It doesn’t matter what they do with that, dear ones, what you do with it. Can you turn things around so that you are a positive speaker? A positive speaker.

Number three, the final. We will use three because this is the catalyst. This is going to be the catalyst. If enough old souls are doing this regularly, it’s going to be obvious to many. What’s going on with them? They are not echoing anymore the drama that’s here. They’re not agreeing anymore that the old energy is here. Instead, all they are seeing is light.

The third thing. How do I tell you this. You’ve heard it before. This won’t be work [unless] you fall in love with yourself. This won’t be work if you [don’t] fall in love yourself. If you’re with a cheerful person, it’s contagious isn’t it? If you are with a person who is joy and laughter, it’s contagious isn’t it? Who are you?

Now you going to see I just went backwards on everything. Should’ve been the first thing I said; fall in love with yourself, cognize it’s real and spread the word. . . .

I want you to think about the circle of time you’re in and the fact that that’s why it is the way it is. The circle of time has created the belief that people have that doom is coming. The new energy that was predicted all over the planet is here and yet the old energy circle still exists in the psyche of those who’ve experienced it all their life.

Enter the old soul. With joy, with love; with the countenance that is a smiling countenance. Not a depressed one. Are you listening? Some of you need to hear this. You are so concerned with the earth, and what’s happening that you walk around depressed. May I just tell you. Your depression is not helping anyone, even you. You could be as concerned as you want to; you can frown all day long and you haven’t helped a soul. So, are you listening? God is joyful and the things that you worry about will be faster settled if you’ll spread the word of joy. That is all we’re asking. Change your countenance.

Watch for the synchronicities and at every single point if you can give a positive outcome, not an agreed on negative one. Oh, it’s easy to listen to somebody complain and say yeah that’s what it is and then you move on. How many times you do that? You might think was none of my business.

I don’t want to start an argument. You’re not dear ones, when you just state the obvious. My truth is that we’re climbing out of this. It may not look like it. Don’t watch the news anymore’ you can tell them, because all you’re going to see his ugly stuff and it is going to lay on you and hurt your heart.

Turn it off and create the reality that this earth needs. It’s getting better, not worse. There are those who will turn away and not believe you, and then there are those who start understanding what you’re saying. They may even come and listen to the facts that were presented, even this day that you won’t necessarily see on the news that this planet is going through a recalibration and starting to correct things that need correcting, and slowly the integrity of humanity is one that no longer wants war.

I want you to analyze how many countries are there on the planet and how many are actually fighting with everybody else. It’s a fraction of what it was 50 years ago, a fraction. There’s really only about three or four holdouts today that have dictators who would willingly invade another country. That’s old energy. Dear ones, that is not what’s going to happen.

Take a look at the reaction of the countries to this. Take a look at what what humanity in general is after and trying to do. Putting things together, not tearing them apart. Not circling the wagons and competing for resources anymore; trying to put together, make it work.

You’ve been doing this long enough now that you can see it’s not the way it used to be. Telling friends. This is what the old souls is about today. It’s not going to be that hard. When you believe it. You walk around with a smile and joyful. People ask what have you got, what you doing? Why are you smiling so much? And you can say because things are getting better. They are getting better in my life because I’ve discovered there’s a shift going on.

This this isn’t going to void out somebody’s belief system or religion for you to say the future is going to get better.

The prophecies of the old and they didn’t happen.

The’re not; that didn’t happen.

All the timelines that were given to you,

including the end of time with the Mayans is not what took place.

Instead, things are starting to improve. – kryon

That’s the message. You see because the the synchronicity will be given to you to comment more than you think. And then my advice is that comment in love in joy, not in opposition. There’s a difference. You can hold them to your bosom as friends as mates and at the same time you can give them beautiful information without making them wrong because you’re giving it in joy, with a smile. I believe things are going to improve. That’s the predictions of the ancients. We passed the corner. It’s tough time right now you’re seeing a lot of opposition to light and I am the light. What a joyful, loving answer, not an opposing proposition, not an opinion, that’s different. It’s just a statement of power. Old soul, you know how to do this; you been there, you’ve done that; you know human nature.

Fall in love with yourself. Start to change your [countenance] in joy. Cognize the truth that things are happening differently and then cancel this ripple of doom. If you can cancel the ripple, or even make a dent in it. I will tell you the speed of what is going to take place will quicken.

The fewer people who expect the end will create a far faster evolution of consciousness on this planet. But those ripples of doom that are not going to happen that people still sense and have got to go away or be erased or at least diminished before some of the things that I know are coming will arrive.

You have a bright future.

Wait till you see the next wildcard.

It’s not coming until the planet

is clear of expecting the end.

There are some movies being developed that may surprise you because the Indigos are young [old] enough now to be writing the scripts. There will be some of hope; there will be some that are rewriting the past and reminding those in the story of the things that did not happen.

There’ll be those who are brave enough to paint the future, something they didn’t expect that would be good. Watch for this. It’s just now beginning to happen. Watch for linear literature that changes with writers who are now writing about a kinder, softer future. What is at hand that might work. Watch for exciting stories, even science fiction about a bright future. Watch for stories about meeting benevolent aliens that might actually help the planet and the drama that would ensue around it and those who might not believe them. It’s all part of voiding the ripples of doom and it can advance your evolution by generations.

Do you accept the task? This is the old soul; I’m hearing it all over the planet. It’s not going to be that hard– if you see the truth, and the light that is there.

I am Kryon in love with humanity for obvious reasons. I’ll say it again. I have seen this before; you have seen this before. It’s in your akash on another planet. It’s starting to reoccur; starting to come back to you. You are starting to feel better about it, At the same time, you understand, God is inside you. You have help. You are not doing this alone and you’ll see it; you’ll see it. That’s enough for now. And so it is.

 

Kryon channeled by Lee Carroll in St Louis, August 20, 2016

 

SF Source Rosalie Parker Nov. 2016

 

17 Things You Should Know Before You Fall in Love With an Old Soul ~ August 19, 2016


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17 Things You Should Know Before You Fall in Love With an Old Soul

It’s the simple things in life we have the most fun with. The easiest way to our heart is just doing things like walking around a city exploring, going on long drives in the country on the weekend, a trip to the bookstore, conversations that last long into the night.

 

We value seemingly simplistic gestures over anything else because it’s in those moments where we feel we truly connect with someone.

by Koty Neelis

2. We spend a lot of times in our heads.

Like, A LOT of time. Old souls create rich inner lives and it’s within ourselves where we truly flourish. When you find us lost in thought or daydreaming don’t be afraid to pull us back into the real world.

3. Don’t expect us to ever care that much about material possessions or gaining wealth or status.

To old souls, none of those things really matter. We don’t really care about how much money our partner makes or living the typical modern lifestyle with an emphasis on materialistic things.

4. Sometimes we’ll prefer hanging out by ourselves to hanging out with you.

We need a lot of alone time to reflect and decompress from whatever’s going on in our lives, and we just need the person we’re dating to understand that, rather than feel rejected or upset.

5. We hold unconventional ideas about life and standards of living.

We see the world and our life on a much larger scale and because of that, our philosophical views can impact our relationships and the way we interpret the things that happen in our lives.

6. We tend to have an easy-going and carefree nature about us but sometimes it can seem like we don’t care or like significantly hard moments aren’t as hard on us as they are for others.

It’s not that we don’t care, or we aren’t impacted on the same levels, but we see each struggle in life as a moment to learn from and make us stronger.

7. Our dreams and plans for our lives can at times seem too large for where we’re currently at in our life.

Part of seeing the world and our life on a larger scale is that we can often visualize where we’re going to be years from now, and even if something won’t happen for quite awhile, we know we’re taking the steps to get there.

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To fall in love with an old soul is to fall in love with their dreams, their passion for life. Belittling our desires in life is the fastest way to ruin a romantic connection with us.

8. We don’t really have a lot of friends.

Tons and tons of acquaintances, yes, definitely, but we can probably only count our number of friends on one hand. An old soul is always a bit of a loner through life.

We feel like we just don’t fit in with the rest of the world and our self-awareness about ourselves can sometimes inhibit us from making other friendships.

9. If we say we “have a feeling” about something, just go with it.

Seriously. We often get gut instincts about people and situations. We know sometimes it may seem illogical but we’ve learned to hone in on our intuition, and it’s rarely ever wrong.

10. For us to really stay in a relationship we need a deep connection with our partner –  something that goes beyond the surface level of lust, attraction, and surface similarities.

We need someone who is a freethinker and who has similar philosophical ideas about life.

11. We have a lot of paradoxical traits.

On one hand we value stability, but on the other hand we also require a lot of freedom in our lives and in our relationships. A relationship where we can have a bit of both is where we can really thrive.

12. We seek comfortable, cozy experiences.

We’re more apt to want to spend a night in making dinner, watching a movie, or listening to music together as opposed to going out to a club or bar.

We’ll join you if you really want us to go with you, of course, but just know for us – comfort is key.

13. Old souls have a very romantic view of the world and our relationships, which is great, except when we idealize things too much and become let down by our own expectations.

Our partner can help us out with this by helping us stay grounded and reminding us of the realities of life if we become a bit too in our heads about something.

14. We have a tendency to be overthinkers.

We’re highly analytical and we’re always noticing the things other people seem to skip over.

Sometimes this causes our brains to go into overdrive. This is great when you want to get the scoop on a situation or person, but because of our analytical nature it can sometimes be kind of annoying when we’re in a state of overthinking something.

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15. The person we date needs to have their own desires and dreams of their own.

Old souls are looking for the kind of person who thinks for themselves and is fearless in the way they make their decisions and live their life. They have to have their own innate desire to better themselves and not just follow a path someone else has paved or told them to go down.

16. Communication is one of the greatest forms of intimacy to us.

We want to hear about your childhood, your bad day at work, the diner you go to every weekend 3 blocks out of your way because they have the best coffee and eggs, the time you broke your arm playing baseball, your plans for the weekend.

Old souls are very cerebral people. Hearing about your history, learning about the way you look at life, and how you understand the world around you based on your past experiences, is exactly what helps us to better connect with the person we’re dating.

Don’t ever think any story is too boring or unimportant. We want to hear it all.

17. We might not be seeking a life-long partnership but we still need our romantic experiences to have a deeper meaning.

We understand that people are not always meant to be with us forever – a lesson we’ve learned far too many times – but we still seek a connection that goes beyond the surface level.

We want real passion, dedication, a romance we’ll always look back on fondly.