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The 2018 Equinox ~ Last Vestiges of Old Beliefs and Patterns ~ September 19, 2018


By Kara Shallock 

As we move through the Equinox, we are called to demonstrate being in the New. In the old, we reacted in fear, judgment, anger and all things of being emotionally insecure. In the New, we maintain our neutrality. We are Compassionate Observers, detached from taking things personally and wanting to retaliate in familiar old ways.

Yet in the New, we are not only detached, but we are calm and non-judgmental; we are Love; there is no need to lower our vibrations to match others. Use the energy of the Equinox to be more in the New than of the old. The Equinox helps us leap into a very different landscape where there is much unknown, and when you observe yourself, you realize you have changed so much…from not reacting to others’ judgments of you to a complete reversal of how you used to be.

The energy of the Equinox can be integrated within so you may let go of the last vestiges of old beliefs and patterns. With the energy of the Equinox there are many energetic changes. This means that a lot of the changes happen deep within you. You see, you might look at your life and decide that nothing has shifted and yet, when you go within you notice that everything has changed.

As you focus on being a master of Love, you will undoubtedly see, feel, hear and know that you are in the New; where magic happens. Release all doubt that this true. You have all and are  all you need to do and be this. The Equinox is when there is great Balance within you and in your environment. It is the merging of equal partnership within you and all around you. This means that there is a potential for a complete merging of your Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine in your relationships and all of life.

Balance is a stabilizer of dark and Light (with darkness transforming to Light) and there is Balance in close relationships as well, which may precipitate a closing of a chapter and an opening to that which more fully is aligned with who you are. Do not be afraid to let go. You are supported in all choices; especially those choices in which you align yourself with Love. Remember that letting go can be a lot more loving than clinging to any fear you may have; it is loving to self and to others (even when it doesn’t seem that way, especially if one is not fully awake).

During the period before, during and after the Equinox, there are energies that are designed to expand consciousness. To many, this may look like endings and disruptions. My mother said it seems this is the end of times. Yes; it is the end of 3D. Those who choose not to wake up from the illusion of 3D certainly may see that all is ending. For these ones, yes it is. Those who are awake know there are no endings; only Transformation.

Some gifts that have the potential of becoming stronger are Intuition and a dissolution of more illusions (illusions can be lies, how a person adheres to their old stories or a view into things that appear real but aren’t. Illusions can be old beliefs as well. Beliefs are attachments to how you think things should be). There is more awakening and more Wisdom. This particular Equinox has the potential to bring very high vibrations and transformations for all, including our Earth. We can experience more awakening, more energy along with many more opportunities (oh no! More choices?!).

There is an increase of Love as well. You may want to be near water, in Nature or in the mountains, as there is much Peace and Awareness in these high vibrational places. Are you ready to completely leave behind old patterns and beliefs? If so, use the Power of this Equinox to make choices that are aligned with who you are now.

If you are in a meaningful relationship, don’t rush into making a decision to leave. Be patient and take a breath. Realize that many relationships are transforming. Choose what is right for you…choose with Awareness and not fear. Be patient and be in your Integrity. Realize that how you choose creates the next moments. Realize that you may be intolerant of old energies; see who drains you and who energizes you. You see, those who drain you and yet you still choose to be with those folks not only shows you where you drain yourself, but also points you in the right direction. You may want to go somewhere alone and be in touch with what you truly want and what you are no longer willing to endure.

This is a time to see things clearly. You may want to make amends (Forgiveness) and you may want to release much: drama, old beliefs, codependency and all that limits you. Be sure to let go of old emotions such as shame, guilt, anger and energies (for these truly are all energies) that limit who you are. Let go of your old stories (things others or you keep telling yourself to explain why things are the way they are). You are not your stories. Your stories are of the old. You are New.

If you feel ultra-sensitive, amped up, quite emotional, along with some other phenomena, realize that all these energies are helping you be into a more rarified state of being. Remember, you are becoming more sensitive to energies and you are intuiting much. You may also experience restlessness, vertigo and disorientation.

Pay attention to when you see number sequences and experience synchronicities. You may also have sleep changes and may be thirstier and hungrier as well (or just the opposite). Don’t compare yourself to others, as we are all individuals. We may be One, yet we experience everything uniquely designed for just ourselves…we experience whatever helps us transform.

As we move into the next phase; the Equinox; there may be a lull beforehand. Use this time to integrate all you’ve learned and experienced. Perhaps view the last six months and notice how you’ve shifted, what Gaia’s been doing and all that has brought you to this New Now. It’s a great time to nurture yourself and be kind to yourself and others. This time of preparation definitely helps you be grounded before the energies begin again. Breathe deeply. Remember that you are in charge of how you feel. Life doesn’t happen to you; you create life. Be true to yourself. This doesn’t mean you yell to everyone how different you are; you can be silent and maintain your own Integrity. Be who you are (not the old familiar you; the New you).

Be sure to use your Discernment. When you discern what is true for you, you are in your Integrity. Feel what is right for you and let the rest go. The words that expand your Heart are true for you; those that constrict your Heart are false for you. By now, your Heart is strong, while your intellect is quieter. Having a strong Heart helps you be more intuitive and wise. It helps you feel into things (Discernment).

Use words that empower rather than separate or minimize. Words are energy and they are symbols of what beliefs you hold. When you are clear of all old beliefs, your words reflect your Clarity and are positive. See all that you attract into your life as a mirror. It’s a beautiful way to clear yourself of outmoded beliefs and behaviors. Feel into everything. For too long, most have relied on their intellect and still do. Feel; it’s the only way to truly know what is true for you.

Much is completing now; this is to prepare us for what’s ahead. Many have ascended multiple times and others are ascending for the first time. It matters not who is doing what; just pay attention to your own journey. Remember that Ascension is not a one-time event; it is ongoing. You don’t stop evolving (unless you choose to). The next three months surely will see much shifting; many “humans” and other lifeforms will go through much. How we perceive it all is up to each being. For me, I always see the positive even in the most horrendous events. This is how I choose to be.

Please do integrate all you’ve learned into your everyday life. It’s the only way to move ahead. Is there anything you’ve forgotten? (It is the first thing (or more than one) that comes to you.) The bottom line is you are Source. You are Soul. You are a master of Love.

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Mike Quinsey ~ Events Will Show Where You Are Meant to Go ~ March 16, 2018


By Mike Quinsey, 03/16/2018

Be assured that all goes well and although it is chaotic in some countries. The underlying reason is that dramatic changes are occurring, that are necessary to make way for that which is to be introduced. The changes are all part of your introduction to the New Age that is gradually showing itself as the old energies dissipate. Do not be dismayed at whatever measures are called for to clear the old away, as you will have everything to gain in the course of time. As time progresses the old ways that have no place in the future will gradually disappear. It will be an unsettling unavoidable situation, so never lose sight of the fact that the best is yet to come.

Now that you have progressed past the marker, the restrictions where extraterrestrial visitors to Earth are concerned have been lifted, but there is still a vetting system to ensure that none of them are intent on interfering with your path to Ascension. It is time to meet your “spiritual parents” who are the Pleiadians, and in due course it will take place. Future events are well planned, and all with the intention of preparing you for the upliftment of your vibrations, and the ultimate is of course your Ascension. So to say, happy times are around the corner and most likely far beyond your present ability to predict. Little by little you have been given some ideas of what it holds, yet you will be greatly surprised by the extent of the beneficial changes.

You will become free souls that are so advanced, that you will be the master of your own future and have much more choice as to what you can do. You will be responsible souls and lead your life in accordance with spiritual edicts from the hierarchy that oversee all of your progress. Life from hereon will get better and better, and already some of you sense the changes that are taking place. The greater plan for your advancement is controlled by those powerful souls from the Godhead who ensure that all is carried out in balance and harmony with All that Is. In fact through all of your lifetimes higher souls accompany you and help you with their guidance, but will always honour your free choice.

With spiritual teachings much is made of the need to be non-judgemental, because you cannot possibly know the life plan of another soul. You may be involved with another one and between you for better or worse as you would understand it, you help each other to evolve. Often souls are linked together for karmic reasons, and may have spent earlier lives together and by playing different roles helped each other evolve. As a soul you are immortal, and when you leave the Godhead to gain further experience, you not only have many, many lives but have all manner of different situations that offer you the opportunity to evolve. For that reason, never look down at another soul, but appreciate that just like you they are following a life plan that they have already agreed to experience.

In between incarnations you usually spend your time in what is called the Summerland for obvious reasons. You meet other souls, your family, relations and friends including your grandparents all presenting themselves to you as they like to be seen, and not as aged individuals as most were when they passed over. Can you imagine a level where the vibrations are somewhat higher than on Earth, where the power of thought is supreme. In these circumstances you do not need money although you can still shop for anything you want, have tea and crumpets or whatever you fancy – all free. It sounds unbelievable but I can assure you that what I have described will be waiting for you. There are waters and sea but they are not exactly as upon Earth, but you can still go sailing or enjoy other such activities.

I can hear the response now and questions such as “where is this place” and what about the numbers of people between incarnations, where are they all. Firstly, there are levels of existence that are divided a little like the countries on Earth, so you are with as you might say your own kind. Cars, buses and the like are only there for “old times sake” and in time you can travel by the power of thought, but many souls enjoy the methods of transport they were used to on Earth. All in all, it means there is no “sky traffic” as it is not needed and it always appears bright and sunny, hence the name “Summerland”. When you first arrive you will have had what you might call a debriefing where your life experiences are discussed to see where you may need further lessons, but it does not involve any form of judgement whatsoever. So where do you go from here, that depends on when you need another life experience on Earth, and when the circumstances meet your needs. So be assured everything is well organised to make everyone feel at home.

Take your life seriously and follow what is clearly your life plan, events will show you where you are meant to go and for that reason may be different to what you anticipate. I have told you previously that no soul is given more than they can handle, and of course you invariably get help along the way. It is important that you apply yourself to working for a good outcome. At any time you can only do your best and for that you will make progress. You would be surprised if you knew how hard your Guides work to help you have a successful life experience. Talk out loud to them as they would be pleased to know you are aware of their existence. They follow your every move as they need to be with you constantly, they are also aware of your life plan and do their best to keep you to it.

All of you are very experienced souls having had hundreds, if not thousands of incarnations, but you have not incarnated with full knowledge for this lifetime, only that which is necessary to see you through the type of life you needed to make further progress. You will never lose the advances you have made, but as mentioned they can be held back from you if necessary. Your experiences will eventually lead you on to Masterhood and even greater things, and you can move at your own speed as everything is in the “Now” so you have as much time as you desire. Time is an illusion and in a 3D existence it is linear and you work to it very well.

On Earth things now tend to change a lot quicker than they used to, and in general all of them are affected by the higher vibrations you are moving into. Gradually some of you will find that you are beginning to experience synchronisation of events in your lives, and others may become more telepathic. It will increase over time as more and more souls raise their own vibrations. In other words you are beginning to increase your vibrational levels as part of your path to becoming a Galactic Being 

I leave you with love and blessings, and may the Light brighten your days and path to completion. This message comes through my Higher Self, my God Self, and every soul has the same connection to God.

In Love and Light.

Mike Quinsey.

Tree of the Golden Light

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Isn’t Co-Dependancy the Same Thing as Unconditional Love?


Isn’t acting in a way that pleases someone the same thing as unconditional love? Aren’t making concessions part of “turning the other cheek”? These are some common questions people have about unconditional love because, more than likely, they have never experienced unconditional love.

Co-dependancy has no place in unconditional love since having a person become dependant on you enables them to be in some form of “dysfunction”. Do you really like living with an alcoholic, drug-abuser and/or spouse beater? Your non-descriminatory behavior where you “look the other way” while hurtful circumstances occur may seem “loving” to your partner, but what about you?

Where does unconditional LOVE fit into a co-dependant relationship? Unconditional LOVE can only exist when LOVE is given freely without conditions (i.e. getting LOVE for yourself in return). Partnerships always rely on a certain amount of “give and take”, but when one partner consistently gives in to the desires of another while ignoring their own needs and wants…there is a problem.

The problem here is one of judgement. Not one of us is able to say whether alcoholism, or drug-abuse, or even spousal abuse is either a good or bad thing. We certainly don’t like to see what look like “negative effects” from these issues. But how do we know these “negative effects” are truly negative?

Case in point. Marriage to an alcoholic is not pretty, but perhaps the “negative” circumstances of that marriage prompt one partner, and/or the other partner to truly seek their emotional freedom instead of developing a co-dependant relationship. In this case, the alcoholic marriage is actually a tool used for soul nourishment.

This really makes life seem at odds, doesn’t it? When we stop making judgements, even though judgements seem obvious to us, then we can experience true, unconditional love. This article may be of interest to you: http://soundofheart.org/galacticfreepress/content/archangel-gabriels-daily-message-sunday-february-16-2014

Enjoy!