This is an excerpt from a personal convo i had with one of my subbies on 12/17/18. My Subbie suggested i share our convo with the Deep Soul Collective. So here it is…enjoy!

Keep in mind: Humans are like trees and our Words & actions are our fruit. The fruit we produce reveals the nature of our tree. The choices your twin makes tells you more about their inner state than it does about yours…

Truth is: You reject me ,you’re rejecting yourself!

You block me, you blocking your blessings!

Can I get an Amen? Lol

We always choose in alignment with who we are…if I think I’m shit…I choose shit Your Twin can’t choose you until they first choose themselves… It’s time to choose self and resist the codependent desire to enable…a desire spawn out of your own desire to be accepted, loved, & needed. whether it be addiction or bad behavior enabling another’s self destructive behavior won’t ever get you the change you’re seeking.

Boundaries ,as a byproduct of self respect & love, is how you display true love to your twin not by engaging in & enabling the toxicity in them. As we close 2018 The Chaser is learning you don’t have to hurt to be loved….and the Runner will eventually see love doesn’t have to hurt.