By Sophie Gregoire, 01/13/2017
The Twin Flame Community is learning a new way of loving and all is well. This is a CONGRATULATIONS! message.
Until recently, you thought that either you love your Twin Soul, or you move on. You thought that either you were going to build a life together soon, or it was never meant to be.
You believed that life is either Black or White.
You thought, I commit to it everyday and I repeat my Twin Flame’s mantras — or it will never be. You thought, it happens with Him / Her or love is gone. You thought, even some days : it’s Us — or I don’t want love.
You also thought… that love is simple and straightaway… you thought, He / She loves me and shows it — or they don’t love me, and this is it, this is over.
You thought : if they loved me they would do this or that. If they truly felt what I feel, they would call now. Yes, I know that sentences like those were in your mind.
In other words, your love was Conditional because it started with “If”. You thought that love is demonstrated, or love isn’t.
Also, you thought that your happiness is found in the success of this relationship or isn’t found at all. It was like — it works out or we all die. You were writing a new Romeo and Juliet type of story.
There was drama and fear and pain in this love, because at that time you were giving all of your attention to it. So all of your feelings were too much. Life had lost its flare because life was only this, and this wasn’t working.
You were not strong enough within to see that you can have both — this and life, love without attachment, a divine heart but that doesn’t expect anything.
Your love was an exchange and as they were not replying — you wanted to take your love back, because to love when we love conditionnaly becomes too painful… if the beloved doesn’t seem to pay us back.
Also, you were attached to it. You were so attached. You could have died if they had said the wrong thing. I do remember the pain in your eyes, the agony that you felt because they weren’t what you wanted and needed them to be.
You’ve hang on and cling to it so much. It became your life at some point — your breathe, your good morning, your good night, your smile.
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Things have changed, shifted even. Now you know that it’s not what it used to be. Now you can love, but as you don’t need love, even this love — you aren’t attached to it.
You love, but you just love. You’ve forgotten about neediness, attachment, the chasers, the runners, the labels, your need to be rescued, your hyperfocus, your “It’s him or no one else”. Your love comes from a new and very high energetic point.
You’ve forgotten all the wrong reasons that made you love. The need, the void, the hurt.
Now it’s different, you just love because you love them and that’s the way things are, that’s the way you are.
It’s funny because now, you see this as an adventure again. Like you used to, centuries ago. An adventure of love. In the meantime it became your life, or your pain, or your goal, or your sparkle, or you drama. You were hyperfocusing, it was life or death, passion or blood — it was always too much but in many different ways, depending on the day.
It’s weird because you still love but you care less and less. The OUTCOME? you don’t need to know anymore. You only love now, you’re a vibration, an energy.
You’ve attained the purity of it. Now, you just LOVE.
You almost think, that you’ll love even if nothing new happens — even if life between you and them never unfolds in the physical.
You almost think, that Happiness can be found in other arms. It’s funny how life has changed. But this, is because you Love them as a pure feeling.
We’re proud because, you don’t love in order to receive anymore.
You just love, that’s your vibration. You love them, and in the meantime — life is.
Congratulations!!
Sophie <3