soul mate – Rose Rambles…

Soul mates…I AM married to my soul mate, however, my husband is not my twin flame. Twin flame relationship can be extremely wonderful, yet problematic! But I like living with my soul mate…my husband and I are so totally comfortable with each other and share so very many likes…in short, we have a wonderful relationship! So how do you know when you find a soul mate?

I found an article today that directly addresses that question and let’s you know the signs when you have indeed found a soul mate…either romantically, or not! So please read on, think about it, and…

Enjoy!

What is a Soul Mate?
Do I have just one?

When your soul was first created, it was born in a litter! Yes, that’s right! Maybe several hundred souls were part of that litter!
Let’s think of it this way: The Universe had a thought and many souls were born to carry it out.

Soul Mates are like facets on a diamond. Each face has a different perspective and I different role! Facets that are close to each other are similar and facets that are on the opposite side of the diamond are quite different.

Soul Mates usually come together to do something together or learn something together. It is also true that Soul Mates tend to travel in teams together into every life.

These are souls who know each other and appreciate each other. They make excellent partners and good relationships.

There is one problem though?
If someone is too familiar, we tend to take them for granted and never notice how special they are.

It is far too common to find out that the person we have been looking for over the years has always been right beside us!

I had a friend many years ago that demonstrated this principle to me so clearly that I never forgot it. Rob was a ladies man. Every day he would come back to the apartment having met a new lady! Every lady was sexy and beautiful. I was a monk at the time, but I was very impressed that he could be so outgoing and friendly.
A year later I saw him and he told me that he was getting married! I really wanted to see whom he had chosen! There were so many choices!

When I finally met her, she was not what I expected. She was not a super-star like the other ladies. She wore no make-up and dressed very plain and simple. She was very sweet and clever but not beautiful. So I asked Rob why he had chosen her?
He said to me, “Bob, I have known her for many years. Every time I need something she is always there! That’s how I knew that she was the one! She was always naturally there when I needed her!”

I never forgot what he said! It is so true! The person we need is most likely right in front of us. We see them every day but we don’t notice them as important. They are too familiar!

We are so preoccupied looking for our “special someone” that we don’t see Natures gift right in front of us!

Soul Mates are close. They understand each other and work well together. But perhaps, once again, there is no romance! But life is not just about romance!
Romance is the dream. Every day is about reality and having what we need to enjoy our life and be successful and happy.

Don’t let your dream take you away from reality!
There is a rule in this Universe: What you need is right here right now!
How do I find that special person more quickly?

I have three suggestions: First don’t look for someone so special! Look for someone who connects with your heart and feels good.
Second take off your mask and be your self! If you wear a mask no one can see you!
Third, do good deeds and be loving to everyone!
First deserve and then desire!!

Link: http://www.shiftfrequency.com/zen-gardner-transcending-the-parasitic-fear-agenda/

Twin Flames

I’ve been reading a LOT about twin flames recently. H’mm, why is that? I’ve copied and article from 5D Alternative News that provides some insight into the “twin flame”. If you are interested,,,read on.

The term twin flame is becoming increasingly acknowledged and familiar in the metaphysical realm, especially as the numbers of twin flame relationships seem to skyrocket—most likely to help our world with the unique energies, perspectives, and power that twin flame reunions create. A twin flame is quite literally the soul’s other half, which parted before entering the 3rd dimensional experience and human incarnation.

Up until recently, most twin flame halves did not incarnate at the same time, but took turns supporting each other through respective human lifetimes. However, twin flame partners are incarnating together in greater numbers now with the special purposes of helping to maintain timelines, protect and augment energies, and move our world forward, particularly in the times ahead.

Since many soul-mate connections are also quite compelling, familiar, and strong, how do you know whether you’ve really found your “partner of ultimate How Do I Know If I’ve Found My Twin Flame? | in5d.com destiny” or twin flame? Listed below are some of the attributes of a twin flame relationship:

You had dreams or visions of this person and/or your energetic relationship before ever meeting in this lifetime.
Meeting your partner felt like “coming home” to a familiar, long-lost energy. After meeting, you had “memories” of other times and places with that person that are not part of this life experience so far.
Your partner mirrors your own issues, concerns, and imbalances, but you also complement each other’s skill sets, talents, and capacities. You are the ultimate embodiment of yin/yang.
At least one partner is of higher frequency, possibly a First Waver, Indigo, and/or Crystal, or is genetically related to one.
You may be of different ages, the same or opposite sex, vastly different backgrounds, “opposing” religions or cultures, but you feel an incredible unity or incomparable sense of oneness with your partner.
You feel each other’s symptoms, illnesses, and emotions even when you are not near each other or in communication.
Your functioning is impaired or much less optimal when you are apart from your twin flame. It physically and mentally hurts when you are not together.
When you are with your partner and the relationship is in balance, you become stronger, more powerful, and more capable than you have ever felt. You feel united in a mission or “calling” to serve others and the world.
Your unconditional love for your partner is like no other. Your partner is likely to have a certain habit, quality, or “baggage” that would be a deal-breaker for you in any other relationship. However, you overlook it or willingly work through it with this partner– no matter what it takes.
You met your partner when one or both of you were in other relationships or otherwise “unavailable.” It’s likely that you met when and where you were least consciously expecting it.
Either you or your partner feared the power of the twin flame connection and ran from the relationship so as not to feel overwhelmed and/or vulnerable. Years may go by before you are both in the “place” to finally commit fully to the relationship.
The partner who ran from the twin flame relationship finally “wakes up” and realizes the significance. His or her “a-ha” moment comes as the result of a loss, illness, or other personal catastrophe. He or she then comes to terms with the fact that there is no other person or priority more important than the twin partner.
No matter how many times you break up or separate, forces seems to bring you back together. You see the “signs” and reminders of that twin connection everywhere, urging you back together.
Your relationship is characterized by extreme highs and lows, including passion and intense pain you’ve most likely never felt before.
In efforts to harmonize, justify karma, and balance each other, you “push each other’s buttons” and test each other’s limits like no one else has or ever will. Nevertheless, the extreme highs in the relationship consistently get higher.
Friends, family members, and others in your circle can’t relate to the twin flame dramas and always try to get you to move on to someone or something else that seems more logical or better for you “on paper.”
The growth you experience, the lessons you learn, and the person you become in the twin flame relationship are more significant, happen more rapidly, and are more powerful than any other experience or period of growth in your life.
You realize that your previous soul mates or other relationships prepared you for the twin flame reunion. Your twin flame may even have or embody a number of the unusual characteristics or outstanding attributes of your previous mates and soul friends.
You feel as if you’ve been waiting your whole life for this person. When you look back at your life, you see illnesses, sabotaged relationships, or other situations that manifested because you were still waiting and still looking for “the one.”
Even if you are extremely tired of 3 dimensional existence here on earth, you heal, evolve, mature, and continue to live– just to stay with your twin flame partner.
You are an “old soul” and this is your last human experience.
The more that you and your twin partner spend time together, the more rapidly and completely you awaken to higher consciousness.
You have a deep knowing that your twin partner is your destiny– not just in this lifetime, but also when you ascend, return “home,” and are reunited for eternity.

That’s info helping your discover if you nave met your twin flame. But, why is it SOOO important to find, know, and LOVE your twin flame? This video describes the importance of finding your twin flame: https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=Vhb6ADErr5M In a nutshell…the LOVE experienced by twin flames is powerful! This LOVE (high vibrations) of this spiritual union are designed to help lift this planet to another higher dimension.

How to find them? Try meditation as a tool to locate and find your twin flame. I am no expert, but there are those out there who will assist you in the journey to find your beloved: www.locgroup.net Max, the Healer’s Healer, is an acclaimed energy healer, psychic coach, and medical intuitive. Max, Lana, and LOC Group enjoy helping other twin flame partners make the most of this human experience.

Enjoy!