Tag: human evolution

“Who are you? How many? Yes.” ~ June 24, 2015


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I really, really like Sophia Love! Her telepathic empathy opens all kinds of doors the rest of us haven’t figured out how to open yet. In this conversation, the BEing she communicates with share some pretty awesome stuff. So…pleases read this,put on your thinking cap and relate this information with what you may have already learned, and…

Injoy!

Hi,

Welcome to my newsletter!  I’ve been having so many conversations as of late, that it’s challenging to choose which to share!  The title of this publication comes, paraphrased, from a Kryon talk from early June of this year.  It’s included below.  

In it, he describes, sort of, the energy I often experience during these “conversations”… it is filled with a blast of love in almost every case.  The recent energetic shifts have allowed a greater range of beings to reach us, and it is getting pretty wild and wonderful. 

As I speak to them, I am getting an overview of our own growth, the evolution of a being, the human being. We are in for the incredible, so hang on.

 

Disclaimer:

The conversation shared below took place on May 31st, 2015.  Words in parenthesis and italics are my own. Believe it or not, as you will. It is verbatim. Before conversing, the following declarations were made: “Highest and best for all concerned.  Complete and absolute truth only.” 

I would like to speak to the Annunaki, a member of the race, who can tell me what their plan is as far as returning.

 

(Let me say here, that there is always a difference in the energy of the being as he or she or they, if there are more than one, come through.  Yet, until this day, I had never felt a sort of hierarchy to the voice.  Here, I felt as if I was a sort of “lowly human”, who, merely by asking for contact, was out of line.  I was shocked, as there has been nothing but equality and concern, interest or love, until now.  You will probably pick up on that vibe when you read the conversation here.  It was illuminating, for sure.)

 

You presume much.

 

I do not fully understand your comment or how this works.  Hence, my request. Explain please.

 

You are assuming all beings are on call and you only need dial out.  This is not exactly true as there must be desire to talk on both sides.

 

I understand that.

 

Yes, well, for you to name a being as if you can just “ring him/her up” is presumptuous, as if they are all available to you and eager to converse.

 

They don’t have to answer.  And, actually, calling someone does not assume anything other than contact is desired on my end.  In every case when I have asked I have received an answer of “hello” or “I am not available”.  This “you presume much” is spoken as if you are in a position of authority over me.  As if you have power over me and want to control any contact.

 

You are outspoken for a human.

 

Who are you.

 

I am a calling member of the race you label Annunaki.  I would be the one intercepting all calls to the ones in charge.

 

What is your name?

 

I do not have a name in your vernacular.  I have a role, a place, an appointment, a job.  I am the one who directs outside contact to higher authority when it seems relevant.
You are an operator then?  A receptionist?  A call blocker?

 

I do refuse calls if I feel they are not in the best interests of my superiors; if they would be a waste of “time” or energy.

 

You feel very stern.

 

I have an important and serious role that if I make a mistake on, will be costly for me as well as the overall plan.

 

Which is?

 

I am not one to state information, I only direct or inhibit calls.  What is it you desire?

 

I desire clarification on when, if and in what capacity the Annunaki will return.

 

For what purpose?

 

For the same purpose as always – for information and enlightenment of humanity.  I will share what is said to me.

 

Well then, I am prepared to pass you on to a lesser position in the structure of authority.  Hold a moment while a contact can be made.  This is of no real consequence.

 

I’m holding.


(The energy sped up.  I literally felt/experienced an increase of rapid speech here, like that commercial for Jimmy Johns here in the US – – ‘freaky fast’)

 

This question you have asked is of simplicity.  I am able to answer in a simple and straightforward manner.
I see you have no real authority over your planet and this discussion will be of no real impact other than satisfaction of curiosity.

 

Yes, we are coming back and the reasons are several.  Most of them are as would be expected in any project – to ascertain progress.

 

Why?

 

To decide if the results attained thus far are satisfactory.

 

What results are you looking for?

 

I am not at liberty to speak of the plan.  I am able to speak in general terms as this information – our “flight plan” if you want to call it that, is available and can be read if you know where to find it.

 

Your “flight plan” does not include reasons for the journey?

 

Reasons, yes.  Resulting actions, no.  I have already explained the reasons.  Are you satisfied?

 

No.  Can you tell me anything else?  Like the timing of such a journey?

 

I can tell you that it is approaching and is to occur with a decade of your “years”.  I am not free, nor do I know of, the precise timing of our arrival.  I am, as you have sensed, a being with a purpose and it is one of orderly dissemination of facts.  This is my primary focus, after efficiency.  I am an expert in efficiency.

 

I can barely write fast enough to keep up with your words.

 

I have a rhythm of occupation that must be maintained.  Order is my primary directive and systematic release of tension so that it is always maintained.

 

I don’t fully understand.

 

There is a tension that arises within structures and systems of life when a specific design is to be maintained/manufactured.  My race is in the manufacturing business, the maintenance of that which was manufactured/created/made has to be systematically checked.

 

Balance/order requires tension, yet too much of that tension causes breaks – a breakage in a pivot point would bring an entire system down.

 

To prevent/forestall such a breakage – tension must be released periodically.  This by way of unnecessary structures or components or even information held back – retained.

These, once released – allow for more “give” in the system and again, a smooth flow/progression/maintenance of function.

 

The earth is scheduled for such a release.  This is all I can say.  That is it.

 

Yes, I feel your completeness.

 

Goodbye.

 

     And this conversation ended…

 

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Here is the Kryon video mentioned eariler.  It looks like there are others from the same event, but I haven’t heard them. It’s about 10 minutes.

 Kryon. “Changes” June 3, 2015

 

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We are the gods we’ve been waiting for.
Namaste’,
  Sophia Love

Helvetic communications have completed ~ June 23, 2015


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Oh…this is a message from Eireport that really makes me feel good, so I thought you might enjoy reading this too. Please interpret this as you will, “helvetic means either the handle of a tool or weapon…or Swiss. So, please read, give this  your own spin, and…

Injoy!

Helvetic communications have completed…

…and open causeways for Illumination of all humanity.

Frescoes of Light appear in the unprepared and previously un-illumined.

Patterns of ancients reappear, as corporate patterns dissolve.

Fennelics have upgraded all Gaia Energetic Expansion Portals.

Remembering What You Always Knew – The Arcturians ~ June 22, 2012


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By Suzanne Lie, 06/22/2015

Remembering What You Always Knew

The Arcturians

In between your third dimensional reality and your multidimensional reality is a portal. More and more, you are connecting your 3D earth body with your multidimensional Lightbody. With every higher thought and loving emotion, that portal expands to encompass both, and all, versions of your current expression of self, as well as ever-increasing dimensions of your Multidimensional SELF.

There are mental enzymes within your pineal gland that are “geo-coded transmitters” that tell you where you are in space/time, and/or in the Here/Now of the higher dimensions. These transmitters receive and project all fifth dimensional and beyond thoughts through your pineal gland and into your pituitary gland, to be sent into every area of your body via your endocrine system.

However, these messages are not sent until your brain determines whether or not YOU believe that this transmission/perception is “real.” The light quotient in your brain will differentiate realversus not real. The light quotient in your brain is determined by your state of consciousness.

If you are in a higher dimensional state of consciousness, you will perceive light, auras, Angels, Galactic, miracles, peace, and hope as real. You will also perceive darkness and illusion as NOT real. If you are in a lower state of consciousness, illusions, bad news, and the myriad forms of darkness become real, and light, ascension, and transcendence are not real.

Once your belief system determines that a stimuli is real, it is received by your pineal gland, sent to your pituitary gland, and then distributes through your body via your endocrine system. On the other hand, if your belief system determines that the stimulus is not real, it will go into your mental computer’s “trash can” as “junk mail.” The determination of real or not real is determined by the “light quotient” within your brain.

When you consciously perceive and accept higher frequency perceptions, experiences, communications, etc., you create a higher light quotient in your brain because you have determined that higher frequency experiences are REAL.

Once you have allowed the higher light quotient into your brain by maintaining a higher state of consciousness, your pituitary gland of the sixth chakra and the pineal gland of the seventh chakra merge to open your Third Eye.

Here is one of several area on my blog to read about your Third Eye.

Joining your pineal and pituitary glands open the Third Eye. The pituitary gland is about the size of a pea, and is located behind the center of your forehead, between your eyes. Therefore, the sixth chakra is often called the Brow Chakra.

The pituitary gland is known as the “Master Gland” because it acts as a main control center that sends messages to all the other glands from its two lobes, which are the posterior lobe and the anterior lobe.

The pituitary gland prompts the proper growth of glands and organs, and regulates sexual development. The pituitary gland is called the “seat of the mind,” with the frontal lobe regulating emotional thoughts such as poetry and music, and the anterior lobe regulating concrete thought and intellectual concepts.

On the other hand, the pineal gland is known as the “seat of illumination, intuition and cosmic consciousness.” The pineal gland is similar to intuition, whereas the pituitary gland is similar to reason.

The pineal gland is cone-shaped and is located in the middle of your brain behind, and just above, the pituitary gland. The pineal gland contains pigment similar to that found in the eyes, and is connected to the optic thalami; hence, it controls the action of light on your body.

The pineal gland is located in the posterior end of the third ventricle of the brain, and the pituitary gland is located in the roof of the third ventricle. It is the joining of the essences of these two glands in the third ventricle of your brain that opens your Third Eye.

The pineal gland acts in two ways to inhibit the action of the pituitary gland:

First, the pituitary gland is responsible for activating adolescence and the beginning of sexuality, and the pineal gland checks the pituitary gland to prevent premature sexual awakening.

Second, human thought is regarded as a result of suspended action, and the pineal gland inhibits the immediate discharging of thoughts into action. This inhibition causes you to look inward and to deeply ponder your actions and reactions. This introversion is important for self-realization, as it displaces our attention from the outer world to the inner.

When the external world disappears, your circle of consciousness contracts because your primary attention is focused on your inner self. It is this inner attention that magnetizes “spiritual light” into the pineal gland.

The third ventricle of the brain is a narrow opening lying near the base of the cerebral hemispheres, and separating the two thalamic areas. These thalamic areas are the brain’s “storehouse” of all your sensory perceptions.

When the pituitary and pineal glands are fully developed and stimulated through meditation on the sixth and seventh chakras, their vibrations fuse and activate the Third Eye. Once the Third Eye is open, you have personal access to higher knowledge. The opened Third Eye is called the “Eye of the Soul”.

The pineal gland is often dormant because your third dimensional self is usually focused on the outer, sensate world, rather than the higher spheres. Through practices such as meditation and yoga, you can remember how to allow that cosmic light to descend into your individual body through the optic thalamic nerve connection of the crown chakra.

The human brain has a fundamental resemblance to a human, androgynous embryo. The pituitary gland holds the positive, masculine charge, and the pineal holds a negative, feminine charge.

When the masculine and feminine energies meet in the brain it is known as the Mystical Marriage. This Mystical Marriage initiates the birth of your multidimensional consciousness, and your conscious passage into the fifth dimension and beyond.

The Mystical Marriage occurs when our Kundalini force awakens and rises up your spine. The Kundalini is the highest infinite energy, which is coiled up and dynamic, at the base of your human spine.

Within the Kundalini Force, contact is made between the infinite, divine creative energy and the finite, physical sexual energy. In order to gain your highest spiritual potential while incarnated in a physical form, the great mass of Kundalini energy locked in the root chakra must be released to travel up to your crown chakra.

The rising Kundalini pulls its great energy field up from Mother Earth, through the nerve channels in the core of your spine, and into the medulla oblongata, through the pons area of your brain, and then into the pituitary gland behind your eyes. Meanwhile, the pineal gland has also received this Kundalini light from the higher dimensions.

The root chakra, at the base of your spine, represents your connection to the feminine Goddess energy that is manifest in the body of planet Earth. The crown chakra, at the top of your head, represents the masculine God energy that exists as pure potential in the non-physical dimensions.

Kundalini energy radiates from the prana within the Earth from the Sun.

Kundalini is known in the Eastern world as the Goddess Shakti. When Goddess Shakti is awakened, She sweeps us up in Her tremendous passion to reunite with Her Lord Shiva in the crown chakra. This Mystical Marriage symbolizes the combining of the male and female energies within your bodies, and the awakening of your multidimensional consciousness.

In the Western world, the Kundalini is symbolized by the medical symbol of the caduceus, the rod with two snakes coiled around it in spirals. At the top are two wings, which are images of Mercury or Hermes, who are the messengers of the Gods.

The caduceus is the symbol for healing, health, and transformation. The center rod symbolizes the spinal cord. In Yoga philosophy the center cord is called the Sushumna, and it represents the grounding, neutral cord of the three parts of the rising Kundalini.

The left cord is the Ida, which represents the feminine side. It is negatively charged, ends in the left nostril, and has characteristics of coolness related to the Moon. The right side is called the Pingala, which represents the masculine side. It is positively charged, ends in the right nostril, and has characteristics of heat related to the Sun.

The Ida and the Pingala represent the masculine and feminine energies, which you all carry regardless of your gender. The Kundalini has two aspects; one aspect is often perceived as the outer, cosmic energy of spiritual life force. In China this force is known as Chi, in Japan it is known as Ki, in India it is known as Prana, and in the West it is known as the Holy Spirit.

You all have Kundalini energy running through your bodies, or you would not be able to live, for it truly is our “life force.” Kundalini is the energy that pervades and enervates the world as you experience it. Click: For more about Kundalini

The Temple of your Third Eye is in the Sacred Triangle of the third -ventricle within your brain. When your Third Eye is opened, you will no longer be limited to the illusions of the third and fourth dimensions, for you will see, feel, and experience the Higher Light of Universal Energy as it “Flows” through all life.

This experience could be quite overwhelming, and it may take some “time” before you learn how to “turn off” the Flow so that you can attend to your mundane tasks, or “turn on” the Flow for Knowledge, Renewal, and Unconditional Love.

Be patient with yourself. You have grown accustomed to the structure that illusions have provided for you. With the opening of your Third Eye, the Flow of multidimensional light will provide you with a higher dimensional structure.

As you compare these differing structures of reality, you will realize that the structure of illusion is static and unwavering. Conversely, the structure of the Higher Light of Universal Energy is dynamic and ever-changing.

With the Higher Light Flowing through your life, reality becomes a series of “Windows of Opportunity” that present themselves as choices. You may choose YES, or you may choose NO. These choices are made with your attention.

When you ignore a Window, you choose NO, and when you attend to the Window, you choose YES. Hence, once your Third Eye is opened, you must be vigilant about where you place your attention. The Window that you attend to, or ignore, will be the reality that you enter, or deny.

It is the NOW for you all to expand your conscious awareness to your highest potential of SELF. We are NOW being called into active duty to assist Gaia in Her process of transmutation. Therefore, you must first begin, continue, and/or escalate your own process.

You will find the process that best serves you within your own self. In fact, this process must begin with your self, for how can you share what you do not possess. However, you ALL posses the inner enlightenment of which we have spoken.

Even if you are sick, or tired, or lost, or even trapped in the darkness, YOU are filled with inner light. Therefore, it is the NOW to open your Third Eye so that you can see the Truth that resonates just beyond the shadow of the lies.

With your opened Third Eye, you can see the real YOU in the mirror instead of the human form that you are wearing. We remind you to look into your mirror to see your face, then, look into your eyes, then into your pupils.

As you look into your own eyes, have an honest discussion with your own self. Then, look into your pupils to imagine (fifth dimensional thought) and see the glow of your own inner light as it radiates from your eyes.

Then, just above your eyes, look into your Third Eye in the center of your forehead. Can you BELIEVE that you have opened your Third Eye? Can you release the expectations and judgments of your ego in order to perceive the calm realizations of your Multidimensional SELF?

YES, yes you can. YES you are your SELF. In fact, you are HERE NOW with your Galactic Family looking through the eyes in the mirror to remind you that,

WE ARE HERE NOW!

We are inside of you. We are YOU.

We come to you to remind you to REMEMBER what you already know, which is:

“It is the NOW to be your Multidimensional SELF,

not only in your meditations, but in your daily life.

Blessings to you all.”

The Arcturians and your Galactic Family

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FEELING THE CALL

Beloved Ones,

We are the Arcturians. We have asked Suzille to give an Advanced Arcturian Lecture Series of three lectures. We have asked her this because:

It is the NOW to be your Multidimensional SELF

Not only in your meditations, but also in your daily life

Many of you, our dear Emissaries who have taken an earth vessel to assist Gaia, are feeling this CALL. You are correct in your assumption that there is something special, something unique, that is slowly, but ever-increasingly, being unveiled in your consciousness, your daily life and in the physical vessel that you are currently wearing.

Therefore, we invite you NOW to attend this series of three lectures with us, the Arcturians. In each meeting we will reveal advanced topics on what is occurring and how YOU can flow andassist with this process.

Since the energy fields are expanding every day, the information for each of the three meetings we will be based on the energies of that NOW. Therefore, the lectures will be much like our Morning Messages and Energetic Weather Reports.

Please join us and bring all your intuitions, multidimensional ideas, experiences and, most of all, please bring your unconditional love.

We the Arcturians, welcome you within the NOW of our ONE.

Blessings to you all

These intimate meeting will occur on:

June 24, 2015 @ 9:00 AM PDT

June 26, 2015 @ 8:30 AM PDT

June 30, 2015 @ 9:00 AM PDT

The contribution is $49 for all three

If you have signed up and unable to attend, you will receive the recording.

Please sign up @

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Ron van Dyke Message 6-20-15… “Is Everyone Being Challenged?” ~ June 22, 2015


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Wow, I really needed to read this piece today…an now I pass this along for you to read as well! Ron Van Dyke is a spiritual kind of guy who is letting us know what we already know…things are getting crazy out there globally, nationally, and locally out there.

So…please listen to Ron and just calm down, breathe, let go and BE LOVE! Oh yes, and…

Injoy!

~ This isn’t a Bucket List; it’s a F**k-it List ~ June 20, 2015


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Oops! “Dirty” language is no way to entice readers…that always backfires as soon as you clean up your act. However, this type of language certainly catches the eye…and when you follow that with an engaging thought…there ya go!

In this case, this article found on the website of The First Contact Ground Crew Team, uses a bit of naughty language to enhance the idea of functioning as humans truly want to, not just “playing the game” that others insist we play because of their ideas. My goodness…wouldn’t life be a whole different game if we did not fear what others think of us!

So…please read this article, take a moment to imagine just how uncomplicated our lives would be if only we would “be” for ourselves, and…

Injoy!

Life can end in an unpredictable instant.

The degree of separation between people is estimated to be around 4.74. This is why we’ve all heard about the friend of a friend who was murdered, the local car accident with multiple fatalities or the fire which ended the lives of several we knew in our community.

Most of us too have had something unexpectedly terrible happen to a loved one which resulted in their death. For example, there are terminal illnesses which spontaneously occur at many different ages and not just once a person has lived a full life, as well as accidents, rare diseases etc.

It also feels all too common that we hear about a father who died whilst saving his son from drowning or an adult member of the public who perished whilst attempting to rescue another person from some life or death situation.

These are both tragic and triumphant stories of human affairs. They remind us of how precious life is as well as the innate nobility of humanity which manifests during such emergencies. They reenergize our appreciation of human life and spirit.

The Point of Life (and this Article)

This article isn’t about fear or tragedy, but self-empowerment. All these examples of an early departure make us think, “If we were to die tomorrow, have we actually maximized our growth in the time that we had? Did we look after ourselves and our loved ones in the right way?”

If we wrote down NOT a bucket list – which is a list of things to do and places to see – but a fuck-it list – which is a list of ways to grow in how we think, feel and act – would what it look like?

The following fuck-it list is ultimately about letting go of the things that hold us back from reaching our true potential. Some are about overcoming our ego attachments which have no real power, especially if we don’t feed them any, and others are an illustration of internal achievements that we’ll be more than stoked with when we’re lying on our death bed and deliberating our achievements in life.

After all, real success comes from within, not from without.

Fuck it #1: I don’t worry about how others perceive me

Some of us spend half – or all – of our lives worrying about how others perceive us.

It is of course important to mindfully represent ourselves to our loved ones, but if anybody negatively judges us on our passions and our endeavors, then we just have to learn to say, “Fuck it, I don’t care what they think.”

Once we remove the wasted time negotiating in our own minds as to what they may think or say, we open ourselves to actually being fully engaged in our goals and maintaining our own inner peace.

At the end of the day, it really is their business what others think of us. Let’s keep it that way so that we invest our time and energy in the things that really matter so that when it’s time to kick the bucket, we’ll be more than impressed with ourselves.

Fuck it # 2: I’m going to give back to my community as much as I can, even if it is at my own expense

The simple philosophy of “giving is receiving” rings true on our death bed. If we spent our lives only taking from others – that is, prioritizing our own selfish desires – then all of the positive thoughts and feelings that we could be having would be replaced with regret, guilt and shame.

Humans are naturally communal animals. We wouldn’t have survived and thrived the way we did if it wasn’t for people grouping together in a community and supporting each other. If we haven’t operated according to this principle, then we haven’t operated in parallel with our own innate nature.

There are many ways to do it. It could be via our job, through volunteering, by simply being a compassionate and empathetic person, or all of the above. At a fundamental level, it’s simply a mindset and a behavioral template.

In addition, we would have simply missed out on the many pure connections and experiences which come along with surrounding ourselves by noble and selfless people. This is why we say, “Fuck it, I’ve got everything I need, so I’m going to do the right thing for others.”

Fuck it # 3: Nothing or nobody else is in control of my feelings except me

Life is tough at times, especially when we are treated in inhumane and traumatizing ways. People do terrible things to one another but ultimately, we have the final say in how we feel.

Some experiences also challenge us beyond the capabilities we have at the time, so of course we will be significantly impacted by it in a negative way. Yet the sooner we start taking responsibility for how we feel, the sooner we find our peace. There is just no other way.

The reality is if we continue to rely on what’s happening in our life to make us feel good, then we’re destined to live a life of suffering, because we all know that as soon as one issue is resolved, another one arises.

That’s when we say, “Fuck it, it is what it is, and I can’t change it, so instead I’m going to accept it and take responsibility for how I feel.” The result of this is, no matter what difficulty we have in our life – such as a broken relationship, the loss of a job or a sick loved one – we will always have the responsibility for establishing and maintaining our inner peace.

Fuck it # 4: I’m brave enough to tackle the big questions in life before having a mid-life existential crisis

Right from an early age we’re socialized to think, feel and behave in a certain way. It’s the minority which break out of this on their own terms, as the idea of not being well liked or understood doesn’t appeal to any of us. This is why many people in their 20s and 30s don’t open the Pandora box and start to think beyond the general image-driven and ego-based focus of their peers.

Once a person has settled down a bit, had a family and progressed in their career, they will naturally decide to have a good long hard look at themselves, their beliefs and the big picture of life. That’s when the mid life crisis occurs because the development of their mind, which is a genuine form of success, is well behind the development of their body, so they freak the hell out.

If we want to avoid the suffering of a mid-life crisis, we need to start asking the big questions of self-worth, contentment, morality, community, suffering, selflessness, spirituality etc. at an earlier age. We have to say, “Fuck it, I’m going to make the necessary sacrifices of my ego so that I can grow in spirit.”

Fuck it # 5: Laughter is going to be my default response to both the good and bad things that happen in life

Is it really possible to find the humor in everything? Of course it is. Well, why would we do that anyway? Because as they say; laughter is the best medicine.

New research has shown that the act of laughter is a form of meditation. In the past, scientists have measured the brain wave frequencies of people who meditate, and now they have done the same with those experiencing humor. They’ve found that the two acts resemble each other in frequency.

We know that meditation is not only empowering and enlightening, but that it’s also super healthy for dealing with states of anxiety, stress, depression and insomnia.

Therefore, laughing at the funny, the mundane, the taboo, and even the serious are excellent ways to find peace and well-being in even the toughest situations. We therefore say, “Fuck it, I’m not going to cry over spilled milk, I’m going to laugh whilst I clean it up instead.”

Fuck it # 6: I’m going to have compassion for all people, regardless if they’re behaving poorly or not

We all pass judgement – be it positive or negative, comparative or independent, realistic or unrealistic, selfless or selfish. Or put another way, we continually critique or assess the people and situations in our life, including ourselves.

The key is to judge in a healthy way, such as incorporating compassion and empathy. We should see the positive in others, even when they’re behaving negatively. For example: yes, that person is being abusive but for all we know they may have had something tragic happen to them today, or maybe they’re just at an underdeveloped stage of their growth, but one day hopefully they will have learned to overcome this behavior which not only makes others suffer, but also themselves.

Therefore, we think to ourselves, “Fuck it, just because I’ve gone through my own development, it’s hypercritical to think that everyone should be at a similar stage of growth, so I’m going to have compassion for where they are and how they are suffering.”

Fuck it # 7: Nothing is going to get in my way of building quality relationships with my family and friends

Why do some of us spend all our time attempting to achieve some form of success at the expense of our relationships? What is so important that we make this sacrifice? Power. The more powerful we become, the more people will respect us and the more we will respect ourselves.

Yet if we’re not balancing our external forms of success with the kind that ensures genuine and truly beautiful human relationships, then what worth do our achievements truly have?

Not much if we’re on our death bed, devastated over the time that we could have had with our children and our other loved ones. If we’ve sacrificed the most important parts of being human to enter the rat race and achieve career success, then we’ve simply lost our way. If this is happening, then we face it by saying, “Fuck it, real power is in self-empowerment, not sacrificing my relationships for power over others.”

Now please be assured that I’m not saying that it’s not a good thing to achieve greatness in our field of choice. The ideal is to achieve both forms of success without one at the expense of the other. We should therefore be aiming toward achieving amazing success in our career whilst also achieving amazing success in our personal growth and relationships.

Fuck it # 8: Becoming my more genuine self is always my first priority

Surely we know what our current status is, right? We know what we should face-off? What are our strengths and weaknesses? What are we striving for? What is our next stage of growth? Are we actually content?

Blindly living in denial of our much needed growth and not doing anything about it is one way of living unsuccessfully and ensuring that we’re plagued with regret on our death bed. After all, the only person who will ever understand whether you’re truly successful or not, is yourself.

So do we actually want to continually learn and grow and become our new more empowered selves so that when we kick the bucket we can give ourselves a high five for having a really good crack at life?

Of course we do. But the reality is that it’s seriously challenging. Sometimes we don’t have the knowledge, skills or willpower to overcome our problematic, disempowering and inhibiting behaviors, which is why we might need to access help.

If we have lessons to learn but don’t aim to overcome them, then we’re not becoming our more genuine selves. No matter what, our lessons don’t go away; they’ll keep remanifesting in different ways until we face them. And even when we do overcome them they’ll return to just make sure we’ve properly learned them. They’re quite cheeky like that.

Therefore, we state clearly to ourselves, “Fuck it, I will not be stubborn about who I am and my shortcomings, I will open myself to the more self-empowered person that I will inevitably be.”

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Phil Watt lives on the east coast of Australia. Side by side with his partner, together they shine light into the shadows. He has created meaning to his life by focusing on his mental, emotional and spiritual development, as well as sharing it with others. He works directly with kids, adults and families, as well as provides online support services.

With a love for the word, he has written many articles which focus on ideology, societal growth, personal development and adventure. He hopes to contribute to the multiple paradigm shifts humanity is undertaking. A mantra which captures his philosophy is ‘Have a Crack at Life’. Follow him on Facebook or visit his website.

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