Sophia Love – How Do I Get Out Of My Own Way? – 25 October 2014


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Now…if you have read my blog recently, you will see that I AM experiencing kind of magical spiritual growth and I hope you as well will experience the same spiritual growth as you read of my journey! I have written about really understanding WHO I AM (Terri Newlon – Djwhal Khul – β€œI Am All That I Am ” – 24 October 2014, and also about how that knowledge has provided me with knowing why I AM here…my mission on Earth, (Blossom Goodchild – 25 October 2014).

Oh, but now it gets even better…I’ve been wondering, how do I get the “old me”, the ego-driven “cindy” out of the way in order to continue my path into existing with higher vibrations (love)? And…in a syncronistic fashion, here comes another article addressing that very question! This article is from Sophia Love who details rather specifically HOW to remove my (your) ego from the driver’s seat of living.

Hmmm. Are all the tremendous spiritual changes due to all those darn solar flares we’ve been having lately? Stranger things have happened! At any rate, please read this article, apply to yourself, and…

Enjoy!

β€œΒ So, how do I get out of my own way AND then stay out of the way????”

Hi!

In 17 words you have summarized the angst of humanity. Thank you!

Once we wake up, well, we first of all notice that thereΒ isΒ an β€œI” (ego) that is in the way. Next, we begin to see that he or she is relentless and not very helpful.

Sort of like a 3 year old that never grows up, or a puppy. Have you ever had a puppy that grew up? Actually, that answer would have to be β€œno” because when you sign up for raising a dog, you must understand right off the bat that the dog may advance in years, but basically will always hold the heart and exuberance of a puppy. You can β€œdomesticate” an animal, but you can’t alter its core. It is like that with our ego self. Our ego self is only interested in maintaining the status-quo. This equilibrium was set when you were very young, and you didn’t know any better.

Lets try, in 17 ways, to β€œget out of our own way”, and stay there.

Β 

  1. Take note of familiar emotional reactions when they occur.
  2. Pay attention to your thinking β€œthis always happens to me”.
  3. Hone in on your physical response at such times.
  4. Is there a tightening, a heat rush, a rapid pulse? How do you feel?
  5. What do you do next at such moments?
  6. Is this response successful (do you get what you desire)?
  7. If you did, you wouldn’t be reading this far!! Accept that its not working.
  8. Now – Resist.
  9. Resist the entitlement.
  10. Resist being right.
  11. Resist having an opinion about anyone else or any other action.
  12. Resist voicing judgment.
  13. Resist ridicule, insults, β€œknowing better”, β€œI told you so”, β€œyou’ll get yours”.
  14. Resist self pity, depression, feeling β€œjustified” in your misery.
  15. Stop making excuses.
  16. See that NOTHING is worth losing your self love over. None of it matters.
  17. Allow the ego self to be absorbed. Let it in. Love it. Give it room to grow into the Heart Self. This is who you are, and once you show up here, nothing can get in your way.

It is not easy, but it is oh so worth it.

Good luck,

~Sophia

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Blossom Goodchild – 25 October 2014


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This is a very interesting article (actually question/answer session with spiritual BEings from the Galactic Federation of Light) which I thought you may find interesting as well.

Many of us have asked ourselves the age-old question…why are we here? What is my purpose? What is my mission? I, myself, have asked these questions…and in reading today’s session by Blossom Goodchild, I have received answers to those questions. Essentially…we are ALL here to learn to LOVE. That is, love ourselves, love others…love everything! Many people may get quite tired of hearing the same answer for every question, but love IS THE ONLY ANSWER to any question.

The point of this article is to urge us to step back form the immediacy of life (hard to do when there are unpaid bills) and understand that life, with all of it’s circumstances, is a game. What’s the point of this game, what’s the goal for this game of life? The goal is very simple…to learn how to love, to grow in my ability to see love in all, and remain in love. This “answer” seems so simple…yet, in the past, when I haven’t understood WHO I AM, the act ofΒ  finding love, BEing love, and remaining in a state of love was very hard to do.

Learning WHO I AM has changed everything for me! I AM not just “Cindy”, I AM a spiritual being of which a small portion is currently “Cindy” playing the game of life on Earth. How do I know in which direction to go as the circumstances of my life occur? I now go in the direction of what feels good to me…what feels right to me. Now I get it! What a tremendous release this knowledge brings to me and my life will become even MORE FUN! My sense of life as toil and drudgery is gone!

I AM not bummed out about learning that life is a game. Abraham (see Esther Hicks,Β www.abraham-hicks.com) teaches that our purpose in life is to feel good and have fun! In their words, “You never get it done, and you cannot get it wrong. Life is supposed to be fun: you are creator, you are a focusing mechanism, and you are here in an environment that is very conducive to that. When you get hold of an idea, play it out for the pleasure in it. If you are doing it for any other reason, then you are not connecting to your Source Energy.” And that is a good way to describe being in love…with yourself and life! Please read this article, think about it a LOT, and…

Enjoy!

 

Here we are once more … Hello! I am keen to carry on with the current topic of β€˜nothing matters’. Trusting that is ok?

Benevolent greetings to Each One. Indeed, we are also keen to assure you of reasoning’s behind β€˜matters’ that β€˜don’t matter!

My word, you’re in fine fettle this morning! So … onwards. Many have written in, asking me to address the issue of karma, and how that all ties in with this subject … Off you go!

We have spoken to you before, regarding issues of this nature. In that … One does not β€˜get away’ with anything. For that which One gives out … be it of LOVING kindness … or be it of abuse to the soul in its many forms … One receives back a thousand fold.

So then … surely that would matter? If one was full of hatred and spent their life time β€˜offering’ hate … when they passed over … how miserable it would be to receive all that they had given out … a thousand fold! That WOULD matter to that soul wouldn’t it? It would matter to them THEN, that they had not chosen to offer LOVE.

Yet, they CHOSE hate for that life time. To learn lessons … to experience β€˜that side’ of things … from that vantage point. Having learned that lesson … they may well go on to another life time and offer only LOVE of the Highest frequency. KNOWING what they KNOW from a deeper soul perspective.

Let us look at β€˜CHOOSING’ shall we? One can CHOOSE to BE anything/anyone that suits them at that time. In general One follows their heart … and the pathway in which that takes them … determines how much, or how little they benefit.

So, one who is choosing the dodgier side of life … are they following their heart?

Indeed … because their heart may be full of hatred or greed.

Does that make them feel good?

On a superficial level. Yet, deep down their β€˜TRUE BEING’ would KNOW that this is not who they TRULY are.

Does that matter?

No. Because you are in The Game. One can be very competitive whilst playing a game and FEEL the need to always win and come out on top. Or, One can just accept that it is JUST A GAME … and it matters not who wins or loses.

That’s all very well when playing β€˜Scrabble’ … yet, when β€˜Playing with our souls’ … it seems rather callous.

Who is playing with your souls?

You tell me.

YOU. YOU are playing The Game. Please understand that β€˜We’ … nor anyone else … did not capture you and force you to BE IN IT. You lined up in your droves asking … some begging … TO BE CHOSEN TO BE PART OF IT. For … from the level of understanding you had before β€˜beginning The Game’ … you knew how much it would benefit The Whole … and we mean THE WHOLE.

With the greatest of respect … we ask you to recall that …

YOU CHOSE TO BE HERE.

TO BE IN THIS GAME OF LIFE.

TO BE OF SERVICE IN THIS WAY.

I’m trying to β€˜Get this’. I really am. And just when I think I am β€˜Getting it’ … I lose it … because another question arises. If we are here to be of service to THE WHOLE … how can, how we behave, β€˜not matter’?

It does.

Ahha. Gotcha! You said β€˜nothing matters’.

It doesn’t. The fact is … FREEDOM OF CHOICE. You can CHOOSE to let it matter … if you want it to. It doesn’t matter either way, whether you CHOOSE to let it matter or not.

Then how are we being of service … if it doesn’t matter one way or another?

Because you are playing out The Game.

Is there a point … a purpose to The Game?

No.

Shall I bother to carry on with this?

If you CHOOSE.

Some of me wants to walk away … to quit … for, where is this getting us? Where is this getting anyone? Β How is it helping us to become Lighter? It’s confusing many and therefore, lowering the vibration. Yet … I so want to get to the bottom of this … and I am enjoying the challenge!

Then, let us continue. The Game is an experiment … as we have said.

And in my early conversations with you … you said the experiment had gone horribly wrong.

It has. We could not foresee its outcome … for it had never been done before. The same with any experiments … some are successful, some not. So, One keeps trying … until they get the required result.

So … the required result of this game is?

To see what a soul in human form can accomplish when left to their own devices. Yet … it does not matter … because … at the end of the day …

YOU ARE LOVE … in its fullest Highest form.

THAT IS WHO YOU ARE.

You have come here to play … to act out … to see what can be FELT. To see how you can become yourself in all the trillions upon trillions of different forms.

Then, where does this matter of β€˜us’ and β€˜Mother Earth’ moving into the fifth dimension come into it? You say that is what we came here to do.

This is correct. And this will be accomplished. It is on the game board. As One continues β€˜up the ladder’ … One reaches certain β€˜markers’ on the board.

THIS IS THE DIVINE PLAN.

The Divine plan is a board game???

In a sense … yes.Β 

And the dice?

Your choices!

Bingo! Well played! I get that. Could we go back to the karmic thing though … Because these are our FEELINGS that are being β€˜flung about here’. It would matter to me how I had behaved on Earth … it would matter to me how I chose to treat another.

Why?

I can sense you are not asking β€˜why’ flippantly … yet, to get me to where I am going.

Correct. Why does it matter to you how you treat another?

Because my heart would β€˜hurt’ if I did not offer LOVE to myself or someone else.

Therefore, you CHOOSE to BE a soul that desires to come from a LOVING disposition. You CHOOSE it … because it suits you and FEELS right.

Yes …

Let us try another tactic to help you understand.

Good luck with that!

Imagine … imagine for a moment … that you are not in/of The Game. You are a free spirit without form … looking down upon a very large board game. This game consists of many, many players. Little people, some with hats on … some tall, some short … Yet, look upon them as β€˜figurines’ on a board.

The Game begins … EVERYONE has the same goal … to finish The Game … to get to the top of the board. There are no instructions … no rules.

So sorry to keep interrupting … yet, you have said in the past, that there are Universal Laws. We have discussed this before … and when they are broken, there are repercussions … ie … the karmic thing.

Dearest, dearest soul … One who is trying so hard to make sense of this. How we LOVE and admire your determination to β€˜Get it’ … Every little bit of it.
Not one life time … not twenty … not a hundred lifetimes … would enable you to understand IT ALL. For, every question that arises within these teachings … allows fifty thousand more to unfold. As hard as this may β€˜hit you’ … we ask that you allow some things to absorb through your BEING … and allow time …

Of which there is none …

… To unfold β€˜some’ of life’s mysteries.

That sounds a great idea to me. It all gets so confusing. I know I am not the only one. I wish I could set you up with an email address … then you could deal with some of the emails from those feeling the same as I do!! OK. Back to being out of our bodies and looking down at The Game …

The Game began … One moves up … One moves down … through choices made. As One looks down from a HIGHER perspective upon the board … they can see certain β€˜land marks’ that are there to be accomplished … as One reaches them.

Is it not so … that through choice … One repeats old patterns? They are simply (as we have referred to before) climbing the ladder, or, slipping down the snake to the β€˜same old’.

When CHOOSING NOT to repeat … when CHOOSING to β€˜move Higher’ … One finds NEW challenges … more pleasurable ones.

Keep looking down from above … at these little figures … playing a game of making choices … from which … is determined the direction they move on the board. Little figures on a board … playing a game.

Little figures with FEELINGS …

Yet, the Higher they CHOOSE to move up … the more LOVING these FEELINGS become.

The more LOVING the FEELINGS become … the less One CHOOSES to β€˜repeat patterns’. As One moves nearer and nearer to the top … to the β€˜home’ space … the determination to β€˜get there’ increases.

Yet … from the β€˜Above … out of The Game’ view point … One can see that β€˜time doesn’t matter’ in this game. One does not have to reach a land mark’ by Sat. 25th Nov 5010 … They are simply moving toward the landmark.

THEY CHOOSE WHEN they reach that point … through the choices they make. They CHOOSE how to FEEL as they play The Game.

Those little figures CHOOSE how to FEEL … good or bad … high or low … happy or sad … as they move up the ladders.Β  It doesn’t matter what they FEEL … it is their choice to FEEL anything they CHOOSE.

When you are looking down on The Game … you observe these figurines. You don’t judge them for their movements. You desire only for each One to β€˜learn’ how The Game works. Each One shall finish. There is no question of that. Each One shall move up the ladder … at their own pace … through their own choices.

You see … it doesn’t matter … The Game shall see itself through … β€˜no matter what’.

We FEEL this is enough to absorb for today.

Ya think? Again, my friends … Thank you. Thank you for your patience. We shall resume again β€˜soon’. Love ya.

And we … as we observe your β€˜comings and goings’ … Love Each One of you.

In love and thanks.

* The Federation Of Light speak of LOVE. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RmsCqVjqSss

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