By Judith Kusel
We all have moments of misunderstanding, moments when we simply seem to have some kind of communication problem with someone else.
The trick is to not take anything personally.
Remember that everyone is a mirror onto everyone else, and the mirror will reflect everything back to yourself, which you have not loved, nor owned about yourself.
If someone pushes your buttons, ask yourself: “Where do I do the same thing? Where do I show the same character traits? What is there within me, that is causing me to react in this way?” Someone will only be able to push your buttons, if you have buttons to push!
If you have no buttons, no emotional charges on such an issue, there will be no reaction! It will simply glide off you.
The same applies if you tend to push someone else’s buttons. Most often you are reflecting something back to them, which they have not owned, loved and dealt with in their lives.
In Ancient times people communicated telepathically, and they thus could read each other’s thoughts. One simply could not lie – for your thoughts were broadcast to all and sundry.
With the Fall came the shutting down of our third eye and we had to resort to communicating with sound, and writing – both very primitive forms of communication. The vocal chords were used for singing and chanting – and not so much for communicating with words.
Some people simply have a problem communicating truthfully, and from the heart. This often comes through childhood programming, where they often were shut up, or ridiculed, or teased if they spoke up. Sometimes, the fear of speaking out, comes from other lifetimes, when the souls were severely persecuted and even killed. Sometimes there is a fear of speaking up – for whatever reason.
Most people, especially introverts, will only open up, if they truly feel loved and safe to do so.
We are not all the same. We need to give each other the space to communicate openly and freely, within always wanting to have the last word, or fix, or criticize or take things personally.
True communication comes from an open heart, and unconditional love – simply accepting the other as they are, even if we do not always understand.
Those who truly understand and appreciate each other, will so often communicate silently: it can be a glance, it can be a meeting of eyes. The silent communication between the souls, speak a thousand words.
Judith Kusel
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