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Time to Get Real – Putting Your Light Into Action ~ October 25, 2018


By Selacia 

Right about now you may be wondering how much more intense and surprising life will get. We’ve been on a wild ride of both intensity and surprises. The last part of October is no exception. Still in Venus retrograde and currently influenced by a powerful full moon, relationships of all kinds are now taking center stage. Meeting a new partner, or improving a current relationship are two ways this energy can play out. Continue reading for insights on optimal use of these moments.

Questioning More Deeply

Ironically, when life becomes chaotic or simply exciting, we sometimes get so caught up in the chaos or excitement that we live on the surface rather than looking deeper.

  • Chaos example:a chaotic set of events can be energetically draining to the point that we may not make the effort to connect the dots between things.
  • New partner example:we could be out somewhere and meet someone who feels familiar in a good way, but for various reasons we may not follow up on the meeting.

In both of these examples, if we were more present and open, we likely would inquire within to know connections.

Looking more deeply at things is part of living in a quantum way. It really doesn’t take more “time” to question things beneath the surface. In fact, living this way saves you enormous amounts of time, pain, and suffering. Imagine that your soul mate was at that party you attended and you unconsciously dismissed the encounter and walked away. Who knows when or if you will meet him or her again this life.

A Numbing Out

One common response to our current intense and surprising energies is a numbing out. Other terms for it are tuning out, checking out, and turning down the volume of what’s coming in. Sound familiar?

Numbing out is quite different from becoming still and meditating. You can’t simultaneously check out and be present to the whispers of your soul. Turning down the volume of what’s coming in can be a useful filter for overload. Use your discernment and intuitive knowing, however, to know when you are shutting out too much. Balance in all things is the key.

To be sure, one reason for numbing out is the relentless deluge of news about the dysfunctional state of our world. Our global revolution in consciousness is messy and loud. Pretty much everything about our modern society needs reworking and balancing.

Mega Shift in Global Power

A mega shift in global power is underway. Out-of-date patriarchal structures are crumbling. At the end of the process, we won’t recognize our world. By then, we will have awakened to the divine within ourselves and to the divine in all beings. There will be no “other” to fear and control. We will have come full circle into the light.

What’s Needed Now

Meanwhile, while this process continues, it’s vital that we not lose patience. It’s important that we avoid numbing out. It’s imperative that we remain engaged with the process and play active roles. As divine changemakers we didn’t come here to sit on the sidelines and watch the parade pass by. We signed up for front-row – not sitting but standing and moving.

The light we hold must be expressed. Each of us will do this differently. That’s okay. We can find our own unique ways of expression – the key is to share our light to help humanity and the future of our sacred Earth.

Doing anything less than this puts us out of our integrity. We are not lightweights. We didn’t come here to complain about how long it’s taking or how hard it often can be to witness the hate and division we see.

Your Voice Matters

While it’s certain that we can’t change everything overnight, our energy and voices matter. Each of us counts in the larger picture. How do you see yourself in this picture?

Time to get real and put your energy into what you can change. Where will you put your energy today? How will you show up?

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Prepare for Equinox ~ Next Energy Threshold ~ March 20, 2018


By Selacia

The March 20 Equinox is the next key energy threshold, and as such, it offers a gateway into a new future. This applies on both personal and collective levels. Changes already underway across the planet are getting a significant boost – issues illuminated in a big way and creative solutions arising. 

Leading Up to Equinox

The days leading up to Equinox are chaotic, and the energies difficult to navigate. Part of the challenge involves the sudden change in energy – one moment calm and steady, the next moment erratic and fiery. Even the most seasoned practitioner can be tested in staying balanced. Regular grounding, meditation, and patience will help you navigate this time period.

New opportunities can begin to present themselves now. We’re sitting in the energy window of Equinox, and because of that, potentialities are already swirling in your field. Some of them are only seeds of things you have been magnetizing – others are in varying stages of ripening.

Acting on Your Potentials

Some potentials could be ready to begin actualizing in this window. Actualizing involves action on your part. This means you need to be present and actively engaged with what shows up. You may receive a text, get an offer, intuit something, or get a creative idea as you do a meditative walk. Each of these will require action to turn the potential into a tangible manifestation. 

One of the most important things you can do over the next several days is to allow time for stillness. When you become quiet and turn off the world – for even a few minutes at a time – you can connect with your inner wisdom and flashes of insight that may not otherwise come. Give yourself these moments – lots of them – between now and Equinox.

The Mercury Retrograde Factor

We have a Mercury Retrograde starting March 22, soon after Equinox. This is a time when some things slow down and it’s usually not the best time to start something brand-new. That said, whatever things you begin working with now can continue developing during the retrograde. That will be a good time to set foundations and do essential research for your project. Example: if you have a book already edited, you can use the retrograde to find the right publisher and get that process going.

In “Predictions 2018” Premium, I have a section, guide to 2018 energies, with more tips on this year’s energy cycles and how to work with them. I cover things like Equinox and Mercury Retrograde. 

Tap Your Highest Potentials

Do not underestimate your ability to tap your highest potentials. In cycles like this one, in fact, you are being energetically nudged to reach for your best. The energies, even if they bring up big challenges, can catalyze a powerful inner transformation that previously eluded you.

On Facebook this week I wrote more about life purpose: “Staying in touch with why you do what you do helps you keep the momentum of your life work going. Find your passion by remembering your why.”

Regularly step back from daily activity. Remember why you are here on this time. Reflect on how your reason for being here translates into something you offer in the world. Let your reason or your why, fuel your passion to live fully. When you do that, why would you settle for anything less than your best?  

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March 2018 Energies ~ Month of Renewal, The New You ~ March 7, 2018


By Selacia

In these times of wild twists and turns, March is a month when it’s important to get refueled energetically and focus on personal renewal. Seasons are changing, and most likely you have been through lots of changes already in 2018. Many new options are about to be presented to you, and to make the most of them, you must be energetically available to receive them. Continue reading to understand more about the new you in the making, and how what you put in motion now can be instrumental to your progress in the next several months.   

The New You

From a quantum big picture perspective, you are continually evolving into a new version of yourself. This phenomenon is accelerated during March, your being nudged to integrate your recent changes and to upgrade the vision you have for yourself as you go forward. True progress on the path requires that you let go of old ways and discover a new upgraded way to be. This includes how you are with yourself, and how you show up in the larger world.

If your birthday is in March, you may find that this month’s energy nudge helps you to break out of patterns too ingrained to heal before. All of a sudden, it may simply feel easier to look at tough issues or to take meaningful action on your dreams. Regardless of your birthday, if you begin to sense this shift, be sure to take full advantage of it.

Part of morphing into the “new you” is connecting with new ideas. New ways of looking at your life are always available. The next great idea is a seed already existing in the quantum field. To access it, you must turn off your busy mind racing back and forth and go to your still place within. The idea cannot be chased or coaxed. When you become still and available, however, it can show itself to you.

Renewal & Integration

Other ways to connect with new visions for your life include renewal after stressful times and integration of recent progress and life events. This means catching up with yourself regularly, so you are up-to-date with where you are energetically and who you have become. Some of this process is so subtle that it takes experience and discernment to perceive where you are at with yourself. With practice and perseverance, however, this is a priceless tool for your enlightenment.

The more current you can be with yourself, the greater opportunity you have for making huge leaps forward. As an example, if you are in touch with how you feel about something – in the moments you feel it – it’s easier to process. If the feeling is anger, you have the opportunity to process it and be with it. Giving yourself those moments to process, you are freed up energetically for other things.

In “Predictions 2018” Premium, I have a section with more tips on how to renew your personal energy. I included that this year as a practical tool for navigating these unusual times.

Being in Sync with Your Soul

Personal energy renewal is not something you do simply to help yourself stay sane. It is essential for your effectiveness in the world, and for creating loving relationships. You must be fed personally before you can feed anyone else. You must know yourself on an inner level before you can truly know anyone else. You must be in sync with what your soul needs in order to create the appropriate inner and outer life. Trust that these are things you are instinctively able to do. Know that you are loved each day, even if you don’t feel the love. The love is in you, and in the space between you and all that is.  

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Out with the Old, In with the New ~ Ending 2017 On a High Note ~ Nov. 30, 2017


By Selacia

Inner Peace at Year-End             

As the final days of this historically unprecedented year play out, this is an excellent time to regroup and reassess where you sit energetically. This is always helpful at year-end but especially needed now.  Continue reading for some simple tips for how to end 2017 on a high note, including why doing that is essential to your progress next year.   

Background  

The events of 2017 have been so cataclysmic and relentless that even the most astute observer may be dizzy by now. What is unfolding on the world stage is a mega dismantling of norms and an almost daily dose of shocking revelations. 

Even if you don’t follow details of what’s going on in your country or in other countries, the tumultuous upset is in the energy field of humanity at large. As a sensitive and someone who has chosen to travel a spiritual path, you naturally are impacted.   

The holidays may be a distraction of sorts, your being able to temporarily set aside the instinctive knowing you now hold regarding the chaotic state of our world. Indeed, moments of fun and even silliness with loved ones could be just what you need to calm frayed nerves. More moments of calm can lead to more inner peace.     

Inner Peace and Change

Even though change is the only constant in our world, we are conditioned to resist change. For any of us alive now, the pace of societal change has quickened exponentially in our lifetimes. This year the pace of changes is monumental, and that many changes so fast naturally stirs uncertainty.   

When we are uncertain and on edge, inner peace may be more challenging to access. The peace is always there, of course, for at our core we naturally house the quality of peace. To get to this peace inside when things are rocky outside takes ongoing effort and skillful means.   

2018 Predictions

In my 2018 Predictions being prepared now, I’ll go more into the background of what lies ahead next year and how vital it is that we put more attention on generating peace within. I’ll include specific spiritually grounded tools to help you navigate the ups-and-downs of what’s coming.  

It’s really important to know that you have options and that nothing taking place now leaves you helpless or without a voice. In fact, of any century you could have been born, this one even with its craziness is the opportunity that you as a soul need to advance spiritually.   

Beginnings and Endings  

Quite often how we end one year heavily influences how we begin the next one. This applies to the collective, and it can apply on a very personal level as well.   

If we look back on the end of 2016 with hindsight – considering what was happening in the world then – we can trace many key themes that have had the spotlight in 2017.    

On a more personal level, consider what you were focused on in the last part of 2016. What were your challenges? What relationships were causing you distress? Now, looking back at that time with hindsight – what did you learn that started to help you with similar themes in 2017?   

Year-End Choice Point   

Think of the year-end as a kind of a choice point. We have those in an ongoing way throughout a year, but the one at year-end can carry elevated potentials for radical spiritual transformation. This can happen when we place an active conscious focus on our personal spiritual progress. 

During a year-end personal inventory, we can get up-to-date with ourselves – reflecting on the good, the bad, and the unknowns. We can invite an expanded view of our true potentials, from spirit’s perspective. As part of that, we can connect with a knowing of what stops us from realizing our potentials, and what course adjustments we can make. 

As you receive such insights, you have more context for unknowns and more inspiration for creating positive changes. The “you” experiencing this assessment is the same you with the same challenges, but an amplified level of inner support is available. That inner support is palpable and can help you to access more inner peace.   

Out with the Old, In with the New

Here are some tips for approaching your contemplation at year-end.    

First, as you consider what transpired in 2017, and perhaps what continues to transpire, strive to be positive about the big picture and focus on whatever good you can find. Being positive keeps your frequency high, helping you to draw in more of what you want.    

Second, do some personal Feng Shui to determine what about your lifestyle has become outdated. If something isn’t serving your highest good, invite a knowing of optimal new alternatives. Add things that are fun and connect you with a sense of play.       

Third, give yourself permission to say yes to what’s good for you and no to what’s not. After all, as a divine changemaker you are at the helm of your own life.  

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Energy Update ~ Feelings and Tensions Riding High ~ Sept. 16, 2017


By Selacia, 09/15/2017

Feelings and tensions are riding high in these moments ahead of Equinox. The emotional content of conversations, on and offline, is escalating as people from all walks of life attempt to cope with our changing and increasingly unpredictable world. Continue reading to understand what this means for you, and some things you can do now to ease the tensions.

Background

Energies have become more intense in recent days, in part because of planetary line-ups but also related to the accumulation of emotional distress felt across the planet. Some of this distress is directly linked to natural disasters occurring in places like the USA, Nepal, and India.

When we have large-scale disasters such as these, you can feel distress even if you live far away. You don’t need to have lived through such a disaster to feel empathy for others coping with them now.

DNA-Level Memories

Here’s another factor. Seeing what others are coping with after a hurricane also can stir unconscious DNA-level memories of a past life when you faced a disaster. You don’t need to be consciously aware of the memory for it to impact you in the present.

We’ve all had experiences with disasters in some lifetime, and when memories of these get triggered in present time, they bring up our very basic survival issues. As we process those, we can feel anxious and on edge. When our brain processes thoughts and memories, a chemical reaction happens in our body – regardless of whether the thoughts and memories are real in the moment, something we imagine might happen to us in the future, or something that we experienced in a past life.

When I’m working with someone in a private DNA session – processing survival issues as noted above – they will show up in the akashic field around the DNA. Brought to awareness, they can be understood and healed.

Helping Yourself, Helping Others

Consider this. At the mass consciousness level, we are interconnected in a quantum way.

That’s one reason why when you heal something in yourself, you can help heal your ancestors and even the whole of humanity.

Similarly, when humanity’s ancient survival issues are catalyzed by disasters and wars, you sometimes can feel these survival issues arise within you. The feelings, which may not make logical sense, can seem to come out of nowhere and throw you off track.

Emotions that you didn’t even know you had can erupt like a volcano, sometimes at a very inconvenient time.

One way you can help yourself and others is by being more mindful of thoughts. A disturbing or unsettling thought can stir a whole pile of destructive emotions like anger. Strive to self-censor thoughts more during these volatile times. Only you in the moment can notice a thought and censor it before it backfires in your emotional body – becoming a weapon that can hurt you or someone else.

When destructive emotions arise despite your best efforts, take the time to diffuse the feelings before you speak or send your next text.

The more that you can find your calm zone on any given day, the greater help you can be to others around you. Most likely you have noticed that tumultuous emotions like anger, when expressed 1-on-1 or within a group, can be “catching.” Ever noticed after spending time with someone expressing anger that you feel an emotional disturbance?

Couple Share an Angry War of Words

Here’s an example of something I experienced in my usually quiet neighborhood – I live at the top of a high hill with homes down below. Sound carries, so sometimes I can hear things far away.

I was meditating one evening during a recent Full Moon. A couple living in a house below me began having an angry war of words. I don’t know the couple. I couldn’t see them, but I could hear them. I’m sure that they didn’t realize anyone could hear them. While I tried to block it out by shutting the window, the shouting was very loud. I could intuitively sense that the man and woman in the argument were partners and that they had had the very same argument many times.

The woman said, for example: “You never change. You leave me a mess to clean up. I pay all the bills and you just ran up my credit card to the limit without asking.” The man, who said very little the whole time except expletives, at one point said: “I won’t take this, I’m leaving.” And he slammed the door with a loud bang.

I could sense that before the argument began, both the man and woman were upset – most likely in part because of things having nothing to do with one another. The more angry words that were exchanged, the more intense things became. It was like a fire out of control.

This is an example of emotional outbursts that can arise during these crazy times. A couple like the one referenced above may already have some incompatibility issues. However, the intensity of energies can escalate things, amplifying the distress people feel.

If one or both of them had become mindful during the exchange of angry words – self-censoring and changing the dialogue – there could have been a better outcome.

Here is what I did to regroup energetically after witnessing the angry couple, disturbing my peaceful meditation. I closed the door to the room I had been in, going to another room away from the sounds from neighbors below me on the hill. I applied spiritual practices like I teach in the Divine Changemakers courses, then did some meditation. I came out of my process calm and peaceful, then had a restful sleep.

The Big Picture

Always keep in mind the big picture. There often are energies playing out having nothing to do with you personally, yet they can impact you.

The people you engage with regularly have the same dynamic occurring. Your partner, after having had a stressful day at work, may be more sensitive than usual. Things can be taken the wrong way. Things can be said that cannot be taken back.

All you can ever do is your part. What you can do – and what you must strive to do in order to create harmony – is to do your best in each situation. Be mindful, open, and willing to allow for mistakes you and others make.

If you feel judgment arising within you, acknowledge it, then let it go. You cannot proceed in a positive way when you judge. If you feel anger arising within you, acknowledge it, then let it go before you act on it. This will save you countless hours of needless confrontations and re-dos, and help you to avoid suffering.

Factor in the energies of a day. We live in times when energies of a Full Moon or Equinox can bring intensity along with mega opportunities for spiritual transformation.

Come back in your focus daily to the love that you house at your core. Focus on this love and do your best to apply this love to yourself and others. This is how you change – yourself, dynamics with others, and the world.

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