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A Message to Lightworkers – September 22, 2017 ~ Sept. 23, 2017


by Caroline Oceana Ryan

The latest guidance from the Ascended Masters, Galactics, Earth Elementals, Faery Elders, Angels and Archangels known as the Collective:

Greetings, Makers of the New Earth!

We are pleased to have this time to speak with you again today.

We are seeing profound change occurring now, in these post-eclipse, post-Lion’s Gate, autumn (or spring) equinox days.

You may be feeling a strange assortment of energies flowing through and around you now.

We are aware that many are feeling a “disturbance in the Force” in their mental/emotional/physical journey.

It is actually not a matter of the infinite flow of Source Energy itself being disturbed, but of particular inner paradigms and energy patterns—thoughts, feelings, symbols, and energy imprints—that you have carried for years, in this life or a number of lives.

The disturbance is the feeling of shock as a whole new vibration enters their world, and your overall world.

This can manifest in numerous ways.

You may feel the need to release objects you have owned for a while, or find that you are looking at them as things you barely recognize as your own.

You may feel the need to dramatically shift your daily living patterns, where you live, or the form of work you do.

Or to change or release a relationship you have been in for a while.

You may desire more or less food, or suddenly tangibly feel the dense energy and unhealthful heaviness of animal products.

Or you may begin to see animals differently, realizing that you are able to speak with them telepathically, and see their personhood.

You may be seeing objects such as rocks and trees, and even blades of grass or weeds by the side of the road, as living, breathing beings who have a story to tell, a journey to take.

All of these are indications of the unprecedented higher vibrations traveling through all of your energy systems now.

Some vibrations you will recalibrate to and flow with easily and joyfully, without feeling their effects as being jarring or new.

Some part of your consciousness will respond happily, as you open to these Light forms, almost asking, “Where have you been?”

Other vibrations will cause quite a disturbance in the Source Energy that is you; you may suddenly, in the middle of your day, experience anger, intolerance for certain ideas or situations, grief, or a feeling that you must seek renewal on a very deep level.

Your body may require far less rest, or far more.

You may feel tired but find sleep difficult. Or your dreams may seem as if they have come to you from someone else’s consciousness.

None of this is unusual for a person or a race of beings experiencing the integration of those higher frequencies that you came to experience while in physical form, yet have limited memory of.

We would say, that when the anger, the grief, the impatience, or intolerance arise, be kind to yourself.

Your “spiritually trained” mental processes may chide you for judging another, for viewing a family problem as a crime or misdemeanor, or for becoming impatient, or losing your temper with someone.

Apologize where needed, but do not be shocked or displaced by these moments.

Allow them to flow, without judgment.

They may often include anger or grief arising—or oddly, a compassion that was never there before—regarding some relationship or experience you had years ago, the energies of which have never quite been resolved.

Understand that when you are encountering those feelings, you are encountering much of the old density that you came here to finally realize, feel, and resolve.

None of this is accidental, and none of it is wrong.

Move away from the polarity of thinking that “this is lovely and spiritual, but that is just bad—it’s very dense in vibration, so I shouldn’t be feeling that.”

Those dense emotions, thoughts, and realizations are coming to the surface because they are crying out to be heard!

Crying out to be healed, to be loved—not judged.

And so now your job switches quite dramatically, dear ones, from that of what you have been taught over the centuries.

There is no room now for the strictures and encumbrances of organized religion, which stand like a guardian over each of its followers, reminding each of what they have done, thought, or felt that is Wrong, and how this proves their unworthiness.

This is one of the great fissures, one of the great gaps in human consciousness, that must now be felt, realized, and healed.

There is no place now on the Earth for that narrowness or denial of the need for healing and self-Love by any body of thought or social order that makes its living by telling others that they are intrinsically “bad.”

That they have failed themselves and God, and that they were born into the very state they are criticized for.

Those teachings entirely deny your god/goddess essence, your co-Creative power, your soul’s incalculable ability to constantly learn, progress forward, and Know on a level that mere words and ideas can never grasp.

We see so many millions around the world working to pull their lives together after a tumult of storms, floods, fires, earthquakes, or other disasters, including armed conflict.

And we ask that for their sake, you release the need to judge the tumult that has occurred in your own Earth lives.

We ask that you release the need to judge how you handled those situations, spoke to those people (or did not), and felt about those experiences, both then and now.

In this time when millions are demanding the human rights of each person, whatever their beliefs, ethnicity, background, medical needs, or income level, you must see the parallels occurring in your own life.

This great wave of human emotion, spurring on compassion and self-knowing to unforeseen levels, all the more greatly empowers you to admit that you are also someone worth fighting for.

You are, as the child who was abused, the teen who was never listened to, the woman or man who was cheated, abused, discriminated against—you are all here for the sacred and glorious reason of blessing that very density you came to experience, and allowing to Be.

Allowing it in all its darker shades and rough or knife-sharp textures, without trying to change what happened in your imagination or memory.

Without blaming yourself, or the one who was the aggressor, or the passive bystander.

Do what you can now to allow all to Be, while rising above the judgment, and the need to despise that painful shadow aspect of Earth life that is fading now—from outer circumstance, and from your consciousness.

In time you will remember it as one remembers a pencil on the counter—an object that has no emotional resonance for you, yet has been a helpful tool for learning.

This is Who you are, dear ones!

Those who would subjugate you to foolish regulations, needless financial burdens, and unnecessary overconsumption of goods and bad food, have no idea yet Who they are dealing with.

Yet you do know.

You know your power, and through the miracle of self-Love and acceptance of all you have seen, felt, done, and heard, you are diving head-first into that depth that reminds you of all you have Created.

And so we stand by you, as always, not to be the ones to empower, but merely to be the ones who witness your increasing self-empowerment.

And that springs as ever from your own high Spirits, your own souls, your Universe.

Namaste, co-Creators!

You are more powerful than you yet know!

And we are with you, always.

 

Copyright 2017, Caroline Oceana Ryan

Message to Lightworkers ~ July 25th, 2017


By Caroline Oceana Ryan

The latest guidance from the Ascended Masters, Galactics, Earth Elementals, Faery Elders, Angels, and Archangels known as the Collective:

Greetings, Universal Co-Creators!

We greet you in this day before the Mayan calendar’s “Day Out of Time” [July 25], in these days before the August 8 Lion’s Gate, and the Solar Eclipse of August 21.

In these powerful and rather challenging days, your minds and bodies are being prepared to receive downloads of the highest possible frequency of Light data that you are able to receive at present—Light particles that work more powerfully than what has reached your planet in millennia.

It is so that the Lion’s Gate occurs annually, aligning Earth with your Galactic center and the star Sirius.

Yet this particularly potent alignment in this calendar year will open a portal not only for outer manifestations to occur with greater ease and in higher forms.

It is also a doorway into a level of inner Transformation that can only result in the turning of your Earth from the denser vibrations of previous timelines into a far higher, unified timeline.

These are the frequencies required for Ascension energies to anchor fully, not only within Earth Herself, but in all who live upon Her.

This is a majority decision.

Though not all refer to Ascension by that precise term, the majority of humanity has requested and required that shift into higher dimensional living.

And so you are birthing that, and all the more powerfully in these times of alignment of the Lion’s Gate and the upcoming solar eclipse.

And so, though it may have once been exciting to think of yourselves as a minority fighting for Earth’s freedom from the shackles of the old system of enslavement, you are no longer a minority.

More than a lift into greater DNA activation, as positive and empowering as that is, you are experiencing an intense re-cognition and reclaiming of your true higher dimensional identities.

This is the missing piece long hidden inside your third dimensional consciousness, as you labored within the lower-frequency energy grid for many Earth lives.

You are joining now with the consciousness of the crystalline energy grid.

This grid runs through and all around Earth in a pattern of sacred geometry, infused with Light from the Great Crystals, and special Light Beings (such as dolphins and whales), and Light centers in your galaxy—and increasingly now, from the Light of your own souls.

This is how starships can be powered by consciousness alone, if they are made of materials that react and respond to the consciousness of those connected to them etherically.

This is where true intelligence, and true plasma-based power and co-creational ability, show themselves in ways that will become increasingly more “ordinary” to you as you continue to Ascend.

The crystalline energy grid was fully enabled and empowered in the time of Atlantis.

With its increasing awakening, and your growing conscious and subconscious connection to it, you are indeed moving into a fifth dimensional paradigm.

As you increasingly telepathically connect with that grid, which enlivens every increasingly crystalline cell in your body, the old energetic traps and shadows of a darker age will not be able to reach you (unless you choose to remain there with them).

This is indeed a cause for celebration, but be kind to yourself in these energetically demanding times.

For much will seem out of control, unplanned, strange and ill-fitting, and difficult some days.

The inner and outer shifts you are experiencing in your individual life are signs that your higher self is releasing all that is no longer serving your higher good, nor the good of the planet.

Yet you may argue with the discomforts of old pain, old sadness, or old anger coming to the surface.

While that is occurring, things that formerly made sense to you—your job, business, or energy practice, your relationship, beliefs, or living space, or some other basic part of life—may suddenly feel all wrong or rather strange, as if you have outgrown them, or as if they belong in someone else’s life.

Things that once suited you perfectly—your location, your vehicle, your clothing, your food preferences—may now also feel strange, as you realize ways in which they are holding you back from your true life expression.

Things that once made you angry or feel uncertain about life—politicians’ play-acting, the fits or antics of a partner, family member, boss or coworker, or the divisive voices of the media—may now strike you as irrelevant, and nothing worth reacting to.

All of this Divine Light pouring into you now is simply Divine Love—Light is simply Love in one of its most transformational forms.

And Love, as they say, always brings up its opposite.

This releasing of all that no longer serves you is the natural reaction of any Light-based organism to greater levels of Light.

This occurs so that whatever is hitting a wrong note with you now—anything not in tune with your soul strengths, your most true and authentic self, or with fifth dimensional life in general—can come up to the surface to be healed, or simply dissolved.

Yes, it is uncomfortable, strange, and inconvenient, perhaps even upsetting at times.

Yet you have asked for this.

You have called out to your Galactic families to show themselves, to help you right the upside down nature of things on Earth, to aid in your Ascension and in the Ascension of millions, by engaging with human beings more openly and more often, and you have been answered.

You have called out to your soul, your Angels and higher self, to wise guides and elders, to Creator God/Goddess, the Ascended Masters—all manner of higher beings with Divine Love at their core—requiring their support, healing, and wisdom, and you have been answered.

And you have called out to your own human consciousness to remember and reclaim its highest origin on a soul level.

To express its Divinity–any aspect of the Divine, so long as it is Love itself–demonstrating on a daily basis, even in quiet moments of sadness or feelings of loss, even in the confused state that is your greatest growth and expansion.

And so in these days coming up to Great Change, we speak to you who have come to be Change Agents, and send you the Light that holds the data of Remembering Who You Are, and why you specifically have come here now—your particular path of not only individual enlightenment, but of greater Good.

And we bow to you as always, though you may feel you have done little for that moment of recognition.

We bow to you for having the bravery to come here and to sift through so many hundreds (or thousands) or years’ worth of density, of karma long accumulated and now dissolving in the Light of the Love you now carry for yourselves, your planet, your Universe, and one another.

Namaste, dear ones! We are with you, and we help to carry the tremendous weight of this journey.

And so call upon us, when the day feels too heavy, when the release of old shadows feels too great a pattern to dissolve. 

We are here beside you, always.

Copyright 2017, Caroline Oceana Ryan

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Message to Lightworkers – June 23, 2017 ~ June 26, 2017


By Caroline Oceana Ryan

This week, the Collective received a question from a Lightworker that millions around the world are grappling with.

I offer their answer here, and below that, another excerpt from their new book, Connections: The Collective Speak on Romance and Friendship.

[QUESTION] In regards to the chaos happening during this Ascension, I know that we are told to just be happy and allow others to have their experience, and that there are no victims.

At the same time, there are things happening, particularly in politics, that are so far from the norm.

I’m wondering what the balance is between acknowledging the chaos and fighting for what’s right, and simply tuning that out and focusing on our own happiness, as a way to raise the vibration and help everyone through our own joy.

I feel like it’s as if I’m looking down at my phone, and I’m going to look up and the world is going to be burned down around me. And I’m going to wish I had done something more?

[The Collective] Greetings! We are happy to speak with you today, dear ones. This is a powerful and important point, and well worth answering.

We would say, that each has her or his own path, and that the intuitive following of that path, as your higher self guides and directs you, is one of the greater forms of soul expression you will ever experience as a human being, particularly at this point on the current timeline.

So that while one person’s path might be to jump up and work for a nonprofit that serves Syrian refugees, another person’s might be to paint or write of a great vision of Peace.

Another’s might be to speak with persons of differing cultural viewpoints, to help them find a common ground they never knew could exist.

Another’s path might be to send waves of higher Light and Love to all who are struggling now, whether with inner or outer turmoil or both, so that they do not lose heart, and know that on a higher level, all is well.

That all is occurring according to plan, in the sense of Earth’s Ascension into higher dimensional life.

And so, there can never be one answer, just as there can never be one Ascension path.

What is there for you to do, that will aid a planet in turmoil? Only you can answer this, dear one.

We say to each of you, Where is your passion? What most intrigues and pulls you toward it, whatever it may be?

You will hear many say, “Theatre doesn’t help anyone!” Or “You may be a doctor, but you’re not the right kind.”

Allow No One to judge the path you are walking. It is only for you to discover and fulfill, and not for another (including your left-brain, logical aspect) to judge as adequate or inadequate.

You are here to fulfill that vision you had before incarnating.

And so, sit quietly with your team of Guides, Angels, and Higher Self each morning, and present this conundrum to them.

Say to them, “What did I come here for? You knew how the Earth would be struggling, at this point — the planet, and Her people. What did I specifically come here to do?”

Give them permission to send you their higher thoughts and solutions, which will pop up in your mind as if they originate from within your own heart-mind.

They will be filled with a special Light, and a feeling of rightness that other thoughts and ideas do not hold.

Also be aware of outer signs and symbols. Do not brush them aside.

When you hear or read a phrase that jumps out at you, that feels to be speaking to you, heed this as a higher wisdom reaching you.

Say, “Yes, I am listening. I am actively following the higher wisdom I am given. This is easy for me to do. And what follows is a sense of Peace of heart and mind, even in these trying days.”

And so dear ones, we send with this Message an energetic boost to aid you in your quest to remember with increasing clarity Who you are and Why you came, and to have the courage, even the Joy, to fulfill this.

Yes, these energies are enervating. And yet, they also open many portals and pathways for you to recall past lives, life in other dimensions and on other planets, and your true identity and soul mission.

Be of good cheer! These wheels you see turning are quickly aiding the presence and dominance of Divine Light in the Universe (on all planets, and not only your own).

They do not signal chaos, despite appearances, so much as a new Beginning.

The old must crack and crumble and give way before the new can be instated.

Allow this, as you allow the release of all in your that is no longer for your higher good.

And so — Namaste, dear ones! You are never alone.”

An excerpt from the Collective’s new book: Connections: The Collective Speak on Romance and Friendship

Go Here for info on how to receive the free Connections Preorder Giveaway gifts

From Chapter 7 – “On True and Authentic Partnerships”

[Question] My thirty-eight year relationship came to an end after deception and dishonesty. Even after that length of time committed to a relationship, I feel the separation was for my highest good.

When you speak of twin flames, does that mean your true, authentic partnership?

I am feeling through my spiritual growth that this relationship will become apparent to me very soon. A relationship of trust, support, and understanding, at a level I have never experienced before.

[The Collective] We would say, that the length of time you are with someone is not germane to whether or not you should remain with them. You may be with someone for only a few weeks or months, for example, and realize then that they are not for your higher good.

Or you may be with someone for nearly forty years, as you have been, and realize they are no longer for your higher good. That your paths are no longer on the same trajectory, and that now you must both move on in life.

This is not a matter of loss or “failure” or any other form of density. It is a matter of growth, of realizing what is good for you at this part of your path, and what is not. There need not be a sense of blame or betrayal or loss. You have chosen, on a higher level, to release your partner.

That would have come about in any event, from some situation contrived on a higher level to separate you, if not from your own inner decision.

Bless your partner and the situation, and the path that is leading you away from them. This is part of why you have come to this moment. You are here to experience the forward movement, the growth engendered from release, including (if you can) forgiveness of your former partner.

You are also here to know the joy of moving forward on your own, developing areas of your outer life and inner realization, and even your basic identity, including likes and dislikes that you were suppressing so as to keep things on an even keel with your former partner.

What you are asking for is a heart connection that originates consciously on a soul level.

Regarding your connection to your twin flame, what you share with them is a connection like no other. This is the truest and most authentic partnership you can know.

Though your connection with Creator God/Goddess or Source Energy is greater, your twin flame takes part in that connection with you. They are an aspect of Who you already are, and not the “Other” that so many Earth partnerships represent.

This is part of why you have released your long-term Earth relationship. It can no longer fulfill what you are asking for, which is a heart connection that originates consciously on a soul level.

But understand that your connection with your twin flame is already in place. There is no need to create it.

What is happening now is that you are becoming increasingly aware of that connection, which has existed for as long as your soul has existed.

One twin is the Feminine essence of the soul, the other the Masculine essence, and together they form a beautiful and unified Whole.

That wholeness is what you seek now—the even balance, the perfect integration. A symbiotic knowing and understanding of your twin, without one of you keeping any quiet corners hidden in shadow from the other.

We do not call it a “relationship,” for you do indeed relate to your twin flame, when you travel etherically to be with them in your sleep state each night, and on a higher level, all of the time.

But this is not the sort of “relating” you learned in third dimensional life. For one, your communication with them is telepathic and intuitive.

It is beyond words and their constricted meanings.

For another, you know each other to the point where explanations and expectations are not necessary.

You may be thinking, “In that case, why can’t I just speak to them telepathically in my waking hours?” and the answer is, you can! We encourage this in every Lightworker. In the channeling sessions our writer offers, we rarely need to request that a person’s twin flame come in to speak with them.

They are usually quietly present, in the background. At the mere mention of the twin flame, he or she immediately steps forward, more than happy to connect in a conscious way, and ready with a comment, reassurance, or an explanation their beloved has been looking for.

Most people do not realize that they can go into a meditation at any time and speak with their twin flame, without any special assistance, though that can be helpful at first.

The mind is not always able to grasp the reality of the twin flame existence, even if the heart feels it intuitively. Most think of a twin flame as an abstract idea.

That slows communication, because so many feel they are merely speaking to the air. You are not.

They hear you, and are with you at every moment.

So are all of us in the Collective, but your twin flame is with you in special ways that no one else can mimic.

When you speak of having a connection built on a level of trust, support, and understanding that you have never experienced before—this is indeed all part of your connection to your beloved twin. But these occur on a very different level than what you have been taught.

For one, “trust” is not a matter only of, “I trust you to keep my private comments confidential,” or “I trust you not to be intimate with anyone but me.”

It goes far deeper than that.

It is the sort of trust that means that if your very soul essence is challenged in some way, you will both throw every resource needed into aligning your soul with those higher forces in the Universe that will ensure whatever form of protection, wisdom, or inspiration is needed.

It means, “I trust you to provide me with complete honesty in all matters, and yet, complete kindness. I trust you to be my higher aspect, reflected back to me.

“I trust you to allow my creativity and self-expression their full, free rein, and to be joyful at the perfection you see in me. And I trust myself to give all of the same to you.”

True “support” is also far different from what you have been taught. You need no “support” from anyone, in the sense that you are weak or troubled or “have bad days.”

No such thing exists. Every single day on Earth is a miracle, no matter what it may hold. And your soul is more powerful than you can know at present, constantly in a state of becoming increasingly One with the higher Light frequencies of this Universe.

It is increasingly capable of experiencing, projecting, and of being Love itself.

You are never in need of support in the sense that you need someone else to be strong for you. That day will never come.

The support you seek is simply affirmation that the above is true—that you are “powerful beyond measure,” as the beautiful words from one dear Lightworker [Marianne Williamson] has noted.

And that your only real job is to glory in that, and to live it out as fully as possible, led by Love and its many demonstrations on your own unique path.

The “understanding” you seek is not a matter of, “Yes, I know what you mean.”

It goes well beyond what the mind is able to grasp in its limited way. It is a heart integration of all that you and your beloved have experienced, all that you both are, and all that you both are able to evolve into, while at each other’s side.

It is a shared experience that extends beyond inner knowing, into a sort of sensory connection with what your partner is experiencing, as well as what they know and feel.

Every romantic relationship you have on this Earth with anyone other than your twin flame is never quite what you are looking for.

And so the connection you seek is indeed well beyond any you have ever known with any other. That makes it not only invaluable, but utterly unique. You cannot duplicate it.

This is why every romantic relationship you have on this Earth with anyone other than your twin flame is not quite what you are looking for. And so now you will ask, “Then how do I meet my twin flame?”

As we have noted elsewhere, they exist on a higher frequency than you currently resonate with. Most people’s twin flames exist on a higher plane, and are not currently incarnate upon the Earth.

If you were on their frequency now, you would be able to see them in the room with you.

Yet they never leave your side . . .

Copyright 2017, Caroline Oceana Ryan

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Message to Lightworkers – June 17, 2017


By Caroline Oceana Ryan, 06/16/20117

This week’s Message is an excerpt from the Collective’s new book:

Connections: The Collective Speak on Romance and Friendship

Go Here for info on how to receive the free Connections Preorder Giveaway gifts

From Chapter 6 – “On Releasing Jealousy and Insecurity”

[Question] I was a very jealous person when I was younger, though am far less so now. I know I can’t own or control anyone, nor do I want someone thinking they can own or control me.

Yet I still feel insecure if I see my partner noticing and spending time with any woman he considers attractive. I still wonder if I am enough. I wonder whether it means that my partner isn’t fully satisfied with me.

Am I breaking my own heart, by holding false expectations? I need some clarity on this!
[The Collective] This is a fascinating area, and one that goes to the very heart of the issue of self-love.

For you cannot fully trust and believe that another loves you until you know that you love and believe in yourself.

Self-love is the very large, irreplaceable piece of the puzzle that is missing in most human connections.

It costs both partners—and whole families—a great deal in terms of emotional energy spent on worry, feelings of insecurity, expectation of the need to compete with or be fulfilled by others, perfectionism, and other offshoots of not loving yourself fully, exactly as you are at this moment.

From that perspective, you can see that jealousy or possessiveness is only a symptom of a far deeper problem. If you do not love yourself enough to be kind and patient with yourself when outer conditions get rocky, you will find it nearly impossible to believe that someone else could love you—or that you are lovable—unless conditions are perfect.

As you go through life unconscious of this gap between your desire to be loved and your inner lack of self-love, you then project onto outer situations your feeling that not only are you not enough to yourself, but this person or that has confirmed your worse suspicions—that you do not measure up to that person over there, who clearly outscores you on every level.

We would say, that to come out of that game, which no one can win, is the best possible antidote for criticizing yourself for not being an idealistic dream—someone your partner is so fascinated by that they would never think of noticing someone else.

Because in order for them to never notice another attractive person, they would have to cease being attracted to anyone, including you, and we are sure that is not what you would want.

You would also live in the increasingly uncomfortable situation of being not a whole human being to them, but an object—a fantasy or illusion that is not real, and therefore only experienced in an altered state.

Falling in love can be just such an altered state. But it is not sustainable as a day-to-day reality for anywhere near as long as most people assume.

And so the question becomes, Is feeling secure about being a perfect ideal—your own, or someone else’s? Or is it about extending to yourself and others the kind of love that is unconditional?

The love that says Yes to every quirk, preference, and characteristic that makes everyone the unique example of Nature they were born to be?

This is not to say that all behaviors should be tolerated. No one should use flirting with or commenting on an attractive person as a way to upset their partner. That is passive aggression, and unacceptable.

But releasing the behavior of the other person for a moment, let’s look at your words and actions toward yourself.

We would say that your most secure moments come after having spent time being kind to yourself—special time alone in Nature or in meditation, or listening to peaceful or inspiring music.

Or time spent being creative in some way—music, painting, dance, or some other form of self-expression that gives you joy.

Likewise, time spent giving to others, including yourself, in ways that support good health, well-being, self-esteem. All of this centers you in the high heart, so that you are channeling your higher self.

Much of the stress of the modern world comes down to the opposite of that—the belief that instead of expressing yourself joyfully, you must always be playing a role of some sort.

Not merely the roles of parent, worker, artist, or activist. But a sort of stage role as the Perfect Woman or Powerful Guy or Inspiring Leader.

These are all as one-dimensional as they sound. They are caricatures of what people are meant to be. Human beings have many more dimensions and aspects than what your modern advertisements claim you have.

Those very flat prototypes are intentionally created to put you in the unhappy space of feeling Less Than, Out of It, Not Very Well Informed, Not Cool, Not Wealthy, Not Pretty or Handsome Enough, Not Successful, or Not Someone You’d Want to Date.

You have spent a lifetime viewing these commercials on television, on the internet, in print media, and in film (the big studio films often being only slightly masked advertisements for certain products or industries, hence the two-dimensional characters).

So that whatever you are, they tell you, that is not enough.

And we would say, that you are now in a place in your life where you realize that trying to keep someone in your back pocket in one way or another does not fill the gaping insecurity that these distortions have created inside you.

You see yourself Ascending to a higher level, and would like to take your self-esteem and your connections with others with you, rather than keeping them on the old, false level you were taught as a child.

For truly, there is no way to constantly “measure up” and always be the winner. That is a false security, to always be outwardly beautiful, charming, well-dressed, admired.

You have seen how easily it can slip away, sometimes in only a few years’ time. And it is so that those lauded as most beautiful and accomplished in your societies are often the least satisfied, with themselves and with their inner and outer lives.

Their beauty is all the more fleeting, as they pursue one method or another to feel better about themselves, in the competitive race they entered when young and idealistic enough to think they could run in it forever.

The pursuit of perfect health, beauty, and attractiveness on any level cannot be based in the expectation that it is wrong somehow to not be perfect.

“Perfection” as you know it cannot be the goal.

You are not made for perfection in that sense, and your spiritual and psychological makeup are designed in such a way as to either rebel or “go numb” within the mechanism of pursing an idea of perfection that is no more than outer conformity.

This is why so many feel their subconscious rebel each time they force themselves into an exercise regimen or weight loss system that is not based on holistic health and self-love, but self-criticism.

You were not designed for a false form of perfection. You were designed to love and honor yourself, in all your uniqueness, no matter what—and nothing can change that beautiful, uniquely human fact about you.

And so yes, when your spouse or lover looks at another with admiration, you may feel a bit left out—but only if you have left yourself out first.

If you have spent the attention you need to spend on caring for and learning to like yourself—the attention and kindness your own heart requires, not that which society requires—then you will either not notice or not mind that your beloved has let their eye wander for a moment.

This is true for all sexes, orientations, and sexual identities. Because when you extend the Love and compassion of your high heart to yourself, as well as to everyone else, your partner’s attention or lack of it is not the central starting point for how you feel about yourself.

When you can look in the mirror and smile into your own eyes with the warmth, compassion, and caring that you would reserve for a beloved small child, then you will see how far you have come.

When you can spend time each day being kind to yourself—exercising for the love of movement and feeling like a child again, being self-expressive for the beauty and joy of it, having quiet time in meditation, and time in Nature to connect with the trees, rocks, waterways, and to feel their ancient wisdom—then you will begin to remember that you are someone precious who is well worth spending time with.

Someone interconnected with all Life. Someone uniquely beautiful in ways that the human ego may miss, but that the awakened heart will always recognize.

Then with this newfound appreciation of self, you spend time with your partner, maintaining that same wavelength of allowing them to be who they are, while being amazed at the amount of soul Light you see coming from their heart, as you cease to judge them.

And if the moment comes when you recognize that it is time to release them and move on, you are able to do so.

Not out of bitterness that they did not perform their role as your preferences or insecurities or society dictated, but out of the realization that your self-love is far bigger than any one situation, or any one connection with another . . . 

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Message to Lightworkers ~ June 9th, 2017 ~ June 10, 2017


By Caroline Oceana Ryan

The latest guidance from the Ascended Masters, Galactics, Earth Elementals, Faery Elders, Angels and Archangels known as the Collective:

Greetings, Light Bearers!

Great change is occurring now, as you are currently in the midst of a great wave of Light now traveling through your solar system, and well beyond it.

The “symptoms” will be obvious to you, and will require your patience many days.

For one, every cell of your body is adjusting to the influx of this higher frequency and the Light data that these photonic transmissions contain.

Every cell is learning, as it were, a different language. A whole other way of being.

This is why some are having moments where they almost do not recognize the (often exhausted) person they see in the mirror—you are literally becoming someone else.

It is why your dreams at night may seem to be so meaningly and full of interesting symbolism, yet so hard to recall.

And it is why so many aspects of your world and so many people in it appear to be doing two things at once: Hiding the truth about human history and humanity’s current condition, and yet at the same time, greatly desiring to tell the truth.

They may feel at times the sort of exhaustion that comes from a rush of energy that flows in an way similar to the rush of a freight train.

To the spiritually unaware, or those who have hidden in shadow for eons, the rush of Light now pouring into the planet does indeed feel like a freight train, and one aiming to knock them down.

For you who greatly desire the Light, who have cried out for it since the moment of birth in a physical body, it can feel to be a a great tidal wave of feeling, realization, renewal, reformation, offering a sudden influx of an entirely new form of reality.

Your minds are at a loss to describe what is happening, and may at times revert to the childlike state of not wanting to move, or to continue with your life as it is at present.

This is not a “tantrum” reaction so much as the sort of numbness people feel when they are at a loss to explain what is happening to them, even though they have begged and cried out to the heavens for that very thing.

And so you may be thinking, “Who could have known Ascension would be so strenuous, so exhausting, so trying at times? That I would have moments of barely recognizing my own country, my own culture, the shape of my own life?”

This is why we are saying to so many now, “Do not panic if you suddenly feel strongly that your work, your partner, your living quarters or location, your health or physical shape, or any other aspect of your life suddenly feels that it must transform in a big way, or you will soon be moving on without it.”

Many a Lightworker is making changes they never expected to make, from changing their perspective on how they feel or act with others, or what they will allow from others, to how they feel or act about their community, their social groups, their family, their coworkers, or themselves.

If nothing is the same now, then nothing will feel the same—how could it be otherwise?

It is important that you know that you do not go through this process alone, as we remind you often.

There is not a one of you reading this now who came in without great help—without wise and ready-to-assist guides and higher self already by your side, and awaiting your conscious connection with them.

Many is the time that they have spoken up by sending you subconscious messages, inner nudges, outer symbols, hints both subtle and blatant, while waiting for you to remember (as you did when very small, and could still see them), that they were there, ready to serve and assist you at all times.

And we would say, that if in these exciting, utterly thrilling, but also very trying times, you require more than the helpers you came in with, then call out for a special Guide of high vibration who will lead you with a kind and comforting wisdom through whatever challenges you feel most assailed by at present.

Most are shocked at needing either more food or very little at present, or a different kind of food than they have been eating for years.

Many are amazed that there are rifts or disagreements now with old friends and family members who always seemed to understand them, yet at present, seem to be from some other planet.

And many are surprised to find that they have now a powerful drive not only to serve others in some new way they haven’t quite defined yet, but to experience a whole higher level of Abundance—which does not seem to jibe with the idea of “serving others.”

And so, you have questions. Many of them. That is natural.

We would say, call upon any Ascended Master or Archangel or legion of Angels, or any Light Being (whether or not you know their name) whom you specify must understand the particular sort of alchemy you are discovering at present, whether it has to do with physical condition, finances, life work, connections with loved ones, or a desire to go on a new adventure.

Call out for a Divine Helper who will work with your beautiful Spirit team of guides, Angels, and higher self, and who resonates perfectly with your soul mission for this life.

Tell them what troubles you, and what perplexes you, and require their help, while thanking them in advance for that wisdom which you know is coming to you.

Then check in with them at times, and say, “Abundance Guide (or Ascension Guide, etc.), I call out to you for guidance! Show me the way. Light it up in some way I cannot miss. I especially need direction on ____________. So infuse my thinking with your Divine solutions and Divine ideas. I need to understand my higher path. And I need the strength the journey through all of it.”

And know that as assuredly as we are here, speaking with you from a space of no-time, from a frequency of pure Love and complete understanding that you are Love itself—that yes, they will hear, and they will answer you.

The connection you have already formed with many higher beings, including all of us, and your fellow Lightworkers, has shown you that these connections are more real than the chair you now sit in.

And so—will things be different from now on?

Most assuredly, this great process of Transformation began some time ago on your planet; it is simply speeding up now, in terms of Earth time, and the intensity of the effects of the process.

And are you up to the task of adjusting and staying calm and centered through the tumult of the greatest shift any planet in your Universe has yet experienced?

Most assuredly, dear ones. You are showing the sort of bravery we envision in our greatest moments.

Namaste, Bringers of a New Earth!

Our Love is constantly with you, and we are with you, at every moment.

Copyright 2017, Caroline Oceana Ryan

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