Your Romantic Relationships – February 14, 2024

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We are here for you. We are The Creators. We are a twelfth-dimensional collective of nonphysical beings, and we are here to help. 

We know that you are always doing the best that you can in all areas of your lives, but especially when it comes to all of your relationships with other people. You may be hard on someone else that you are in a relationship with because you are hard on yourself and because someone else, or several people, have been hard on you. You may be doing what you think is most appropriate within a romantic relationship because it is all that you have ever had modeled to you.

When you get together with someone else in a romantic relationship, you tend to see the best of them, initially. And then as time moves forward, you tend to see all parts of them, and you feel less love within you for that person as a result. The average person will try to change their partner, to try to get their partner to see the error of their ways, so they can shape up and be that very lovable person that first emerged within the relationship for them. Now, of course, this works to varying degrees for different people, but for the most part it is the person who is asking the other to change who needs to change.

It is important for you all to see that you are that love that you want to feel and that you can generate that love within yourself and feel it no matter what the other person is doing. And when you are sending love to the other person and being love under all circumstances, then you are getting what you think you need from the other person, but you are getting it from within yourself. You see, you don’t need anyone else to change in order to experience love when looking at that person or thinking about them. You may need to shift the way you are focusing on that person. You may need to decide what to focus upon when thinking about that person, but you do not need the other person to perfect themselves so that you can then offer them your conditional love.

Many people go from relationship to relationship thinking that they will finally find ‘the one’ who is going to be everything they think they need another person to be. It is important to accept and love yourselves as you are, and it is just as important to do that for everyone else who is in your life, regardless of whether the relationship in question is a romantic one. We know that you expect a lot from your children and from your parents as well. You expect them to always be in alignment with Source and be beaming that unconditional love of Source upon you. But often they cannot because they have not been taught how to do so.

When we tell you to go within and generate the love that you truly are from inside of you, that is what we are attempting to do. We are attempting to teach you how to find the love that you truly are so that you can be it and feel it in all circumstances and around all people. And then you won’t be asking anyone else to complete you or to love you unconditionally. And that will make your life a whole lot easier and it will make your relationships a whole lot better, and you will fill yourselves up whenever you need to, because you will have practiced it, and you will have practiced it because you want to be in a loving romantic relationship with another person. Ultimately, however, you want to start having that relationship with yourself.

We are The Creators, and we love you very much.” 

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18 thoughts on “Your Romantic Relationships – February 14, 2024

  1. SOME of us get nothing.
    THIS is what I’ve had to go through since 1994.

    And what I’ve had to compete with.

    To the point I TOTALLY gave up in 2013, around Valentine’s day, no less.
    Thanks a HEAP, universe.

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      1. @Cindy
        I been either rejected, or cast aside for ABUSERS, DEAD BEAT DADS, DRUNKS, JUNKIES and downright ASSHOLES to bother with STINKING HUMANS anymore.

        ONLY an ALIEN will I accept, now. Humans HAD a chance, and walked all over me. I’m DONE with humans.

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      2. Yeah, if they are benovolent at all, they cannot be around low frequency humans for sure….it would be almost impossible for them to land here with all the anger and hate and fear.

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      3. @Cindy
        I highly doubt the aliens have the mentality of puritans. IF they were to live here, like we do, for a few years, they’d be saying the same stuff I am.

        Also, READ:
        https://www.returntoyourtruth.com/post/2018/01/17/open-letter-to-the-resistance-why-lightworkers-attack-each-other

        The good bit:

        “Again … this is stuff you already know, but because you … as an off-worlder …

        don’t have all these thousands of layers of interference/conduits in you

        don’t know what it feels like to feel the energetic charge of insanity coming through one of these gaps/conduits

        you don’t know what it feels like to be taken over or impacted like a grenade, by the energetic charge of anger, rage, pain, etc … and then having that amplified by the internal negative entities coming through that same gap/conduit.

        you don’t know what it’s like to have your consciousness level knocked down to the ground, thus no hope of recognizing “sent” thoughts, or “sent” emotions straight from darkness.

        you’ll never know … until you’ve experienced it yourself, to the degree & quantity that we have … on a daily basis … for the past 11 to 25 thousand years.

        In other words …

        You CAN’T understand it … until you experience it HERE … and for that long.

        Lets get specific, with a fairly typical example.

        Two Lightworkers are talking about a project or mission. From the space of no time (outside of linear time) a negative entity (often many) scan & find a profound wound within one Lightworker. The same entity or group of entities then manipulate the other Lightworker’s consciousness to perceive something or say something through their wounding/conduit … that’s deliberately (by darkness) the worst possible thing they could have said in front of the other Lightworker … and BOOM …

        … a literal energetic explosion detonates

        … the red hot iron is driven deep into the emotional body component of the wound (and lets not even mention that we’re pre-disposed to emotional volatility from the genetic manipulation by the pre-Adamites)

        … then the situation compounds on itself with more entities coming in amplifying the emotions to produce more “loosh” (energetic food)

        … then in a premeditated way (by darkness) the Lightworker who just had the energetic red hot iron jabbed into their unresolved wounding, inevitably goes ungrounded, reactive & can’t even have time to notice this because they’ve just been struck hard … then gets manipulated by this same darkness to say the worse thing they possibly could have said in front of the other Lightworker the original significant strike came through …

        … and it compounds (in terms of negative charge) again.

        Now you’ve got yourself a FIGHT.

        Mind you … they were having to focus & concentrate on the work at hand and on working with each other … all the while darkness has all the time in the world to orchestrate this very deliberately (because they’re outside of linear time) and strike from below the consciousness level & psychic visual awareness of the two Lightworkers trying to concentrate on lightwork.

        So try working as a Lightworker for 11 to 25,000+ years under this kind of typical condition.

        Good luck!

        When Dealing With Darkness … Drop Logic & Reason

        When dealing with the issue of Lightworkers ‘attacking’ each other, you’re not really dealing with Lightworkers or ‘poor character’ … you’re dealing with darkness itself. Lightworkers attacking each other is nothing more than a RESULT.

        And because you’re dealing with darkness, you’re dealing with CRAZY …

        … you’re dealing with insanity

        … you’re dealing with illogic

        … you’re dealing with psychopathy

        … you’re dealing with phenomena that doesn’t – and can’t – make any sense … ever.

        And any psychiatrists or evolved enough spiritualists will tell you … you can’t reason with CRAZY.

        Now you know what sort of a fight you have on your hands.

        Now you know what sort of fight WE have on our hands.

        For you … after a day of hard work fighting darkness, you get to retire to a 5 star resort & sleeping quarters on board some ship.

        We get to go to our bedroom that we have to work hard just to pay the rent for, and have darkness as our constant companion.

        We have the charming honor of fighting (oops, sorry … ‘working’) all over again on the non-physical planes during our sleep state.

        You have the very best technologies to heal yourself with, when required …

        We have to wait & save up for technologies only a fraction as good as what you have access to.

        Try living under such conditions for 11,000 to 25,000 years … and we’ll see how easy it is for you to keep calm next time darkness jabs real hard on an unresolved wounding through what another Lightworker says or does, below the level of their conscious awareness.

        The accurate physical analogy of all this is … if darkness manipulated me through my conduits to hold a red hot piece of iron to your skin … would you keep calm & refrain from taking a punch at me?

        That’s what happens to our emotional bodies, when darkness works through one Lightworker for the deliberate purpose of attacking another, to break up the network & comradery.

        Do you understand now?”

        So, ENOUGH of the ‘rainbows and lollipops’ lectures, Cindy.

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      4. Thank you, Neil for a very accurate picture for some here in this moment.
        Your storyline is well presented reasoning for all you are experiencing.
        We call have our own worlds…QUANTUM, right? In my world, I try to “keep happy” endlessly by focusing my active thoughts on that which yields joy. In this manner, things manifest for me endlessly! Right now, I Am broke, yet…live in a no-out-of-pocket cost place with free utilizes, washer/dryer, and Internet access!
        You are able to manifest that which you truly desire, by living it “inside”, then it shows up “outside”.
        First requirement? Conscious thoughts of happiness (aka loving what you want)!
        Love YOU! 😊💕🌹🎉

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      5. @Muse
        NO ONE is saintly on this rock, not even you folks. I am sure the aliens are realistically minded. No one can be a saint whilst living on a prison planet. We can’t go about going, “HAPPY THOUGHTS!!!!” 24/7. A vast majority of people on this rock are in SURVIVAL MODE.

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      6. Yes Neil, I never said to be happy, I know it’s not possible 24/7 and not one of us can claim that but you also can choose not to ‘feed’ them like you do with your anger. No anger is high frequency, it’s a negative emotion and a low frequency no matter how much you deserve to be angry. Feed away if you want, it’s a choice, not being happy all the time cuz that isn’t possible but you can choose not to feed them so well.

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      7. @Neil….never said I was saintly….and don’t believe in saints, no one is perfect here, absolutely not a ‘good vs evil’ plan to save the world. LOL pretty much just want the TRUTH and nothing else. No pretty lies or deception, distractions or fake battles.

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      8. @Cindy
        Make me a woman, take me HOME…THEN I’ll be happy.

        You are pretty much trying to ask someone in prison, wrongfully convicted, or someone in a nazi death camp, or black person during the jim crowe era to be happy. I need something to be happy about.

        As me and Libra said, “Walk a mile in my iron boots”.

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