We don’t need to pour all our suffering out onto someone we love. And we don’t need to share everything all the time. Sometimes our heart has to decide how much to share. We have to transform inwardly every piece of trauma that is triggered inside us. Intimacy is about listening to the other, really listening deeply through our heart. Intimacy is really the by-product of inner transformation. It isn’t something we do.
Intimacy is something that is revealed from within. As we become more intimate inside our own heart, so we let go of needing another person to change. That is the magical moment. That is when unconditional love comes into the game.
Excerpt from The 64 Ways
The experience of being in love is the prelude to our future awareness. It doesn’t generally remain, because we haven’t awakened enough for that frequency to stabilise. We carry too much wounding. As we transmute our wounds and experience our higher consciousness, these kinds of relationships become possible, even probable.” – Richard Rudd, 64 Ways source: genekeys.com