By Shelley Young
There can be a reluctance to surrender into having your highest life expression. It may feel daunting to you, like the amount of change would be overwhelming, that it would take too much work, or would be too uncomfortable in some way. Please release those fears!
What you need to understand is that the unfoldment towards your greatest expression of self is a completely customized flow that will move at the most perfect pace for you. Your soul, along with your guides and helpers, are the co-creators of that flow and know precisely the speed and amount of support you require in order to be successful.
Your life can and will expand in the most wondrous ways if you can let go and allow the process to guide you, one step at a time. Big change can be thrilling and exciting if you can surrender into the experience of it with full trust in both your self and your team who know your full potential and the most comfortable way to get there.
None of your experiences are ever a waste of time. Every experience, good or bad, has helped you further define your preferences and offered wonderful opportunities for growth and expansion, even if they didn’t turn out the way you wished they would.
There is also an idea that it has been a waste of time if you were kind to another who in the end didn’t appreciate your efforts. Dear Ones, your kindness was a beautiful act of self declaration and contributed to the collective energies of the planet. Your kindness, is never, ever, wasted.
So don’t let your concern about outcome temper your natural impulse to be loving, kind, or compassionate towards others. Allow your divine nature to shine knowing that is the where the real joy is – in your ability to lead with your true, undiluted expression of self. If you are making sure that you are also being kind, compassionate, and loving towards yourself, you will be able to embrace your beingness in a way that honours everyone involved.
What would I say to myself if I were my own loving guide? What advice would I give? What support would I offer? These are excellent questions to ask yourself as they automatically align you with your own divine wisdom.
Dear Ones, the love, support, and acceptance you’ve been yearning for all this time is what you have been waiting endlessly to receive from yourself. Once you join the chorus of unconditional love and encouragement that the universe has been delivering to you but you have held separate from yourself, the congruency and deep healing you are seeking will occur.