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Freedom! Sacred Partnerships in 5D ~ Jan. 6, 2017


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What a lovely message this is! I really relate to this writing as this is exactly how I feel about my own twin flame! The love I have for my twin is now sorta, kinda different…it doesn’t feel pushed or frantic any longer. And, it’s NOT expected, as our reunion…it is a given.

When will this occur? Don’t care know, but more importantly…don’t really care because our reunion is not necessary for me. The feeling of being with my twin is with me always now… this is wonderful!

So…examine your heart about how you feel these days, read this message, and…

InJoy!

By Vera Ingeborg, 01/04/2017

When we embark on the sacred journey, we have no idea what we have gotten into on a conscious, mind level. We just have this deep knowing in our heart that this is special. And the first encounter brings so much energetic power with it, that it shakes us up so deeply – we have no chance but to move forward and step-by-step drop everything that is not authentic about us and is keeping us from being completely free. Nobody but our sacred partner is able to push our buttons so perfectly to recognize what is keeping us from ascension – and from self-love.

It takes quite a while until we figure out that the connection we have with the other person was never about a relationship. It was always about finding back to our true power, our true self and remembering who we truly are and what we came here for: Assisting humanity to ascend.

Cycles of Growth

As we move forward, we learn, we grow, and we let go. Just to enter another cycle of learning, growing and letting go. Although it seems relentless and like a never-ending story, the process takes us higher and higher in frequency. Into more and more wisdom, faith and trust and less and less attachments, beliefs and expectations. We learn so much about the energetic dynamics of these divine partnerships and are starting to get the idea, that this union is an energy that is not tied to one physical person (which only is true in 3D).

And yet – although we feel more and more confident and detached – somehow we still feel awkward around our cosmic partner. There is still some insecurity or anxiety around it. There is still not the ease and full trust and detachment we would love to have. We still have that longing and the expectation to reunite with our divine counterpart. And…. Exactly that is what is blocking it from happening.

“Expectations are a manifestation of a fear.”

Expectations are a manifestation of a fear. And in this case – it is the fear of not being good enough. We still doubt that we are worthy of this love. “But – we have done so much work, so we must come to reunion. We deserve it! And all the writings and texts out there say that if you do your inner work, you will get to reunion and ascend together. So it must be in store for us!” That is how our 3D ego-mind tries to cope with it. And that is what blocks the energy from being transformed into 5D completely.

Beliefs and Expectations are preventing a Reunion

Although we often are not aware of it, we still have certain beliefs and expectations around the process and the outcome of this union. And that shows that we are still in 3D. Existence in 5D is only possible without any beliefs, labels or expectations. It is about opening up to the endless possibilities we have. Only then – the energy has the space to do its magic for us and create a reality that is far beyond of what we could have ever expected. By letting go of it all, including the expectation of a reunion or the expectation, that our partner is that one person in a physical body we are supposed to live happily ever after with, we set ourselves free. Free from humanness. We become divine. We ascend into a state of no-mind. A feeling of floating in a stream of warm and golden water. The most beautiful flow. The flow we once felt when we were meeting our cosmic partner for the first time.

“Once we go through this shift, we are coming into wholeness. The fear of not being good enough is gone. That is the moment when this cosmic love becomes truly unconditional.”

Once we go through this shift, we are coming into wholeness. The fear of not being good enough is gone. That is the moment when this cosmic love becomes truly unconditional. It carries no more expectations of a certain outcome, no more fears, attachments, longing, anxieties or awkwardness. With this wholeness, we break completely free. When it happens, the energy we perceive with our partner feels pretty flat. It almost seems boring after all that human drama and all the push and pull dynamics that were caused by our fear and by the fairytale and Hollywood programming, how romance and relationships should be like. Now, we cannot relate to all that drama anymore as we have overcome the addiction to it.

Unconditional Relatedness

The partnership becomes a relatedness, a friendship. Two whole people that do not have any fear left and cannot hurt each other anymore, sharing their love, being fully rooted and anchored in their self-love and authenticity. They come together and part in a natural flow. Without any human ties, without any need, any pain and with full trust. Because both parts know: We can never lose what is a part of us. No more uncomfortable feelings or anxiousness. No more doubts whether we said the right or the wrong thing and worries how the other would perceive it. Because we know that we always say what is necessary from a soul perspective. No more desire or pressure to reunite. Communication and meetings become easy and normal.

“It feels like talking to a different person for both sides. And – that is true: Both have changed and evolved so much and have returned to their essence. We indeed are different persons.”

It feels like talking to a different person for both sides. And – that is true: Both have changed and evolved so much and have returned to their essence. We indeed are different persons. We have moved beyond the human concepts of the 3rddimension. We are fearless. The connection feels so easy and natural, because, in the 5th dimensional plane, the plane of oneness where the concept of separation does not exist, we already have been reunited – all the time. We just did not realize it while still being in 3D – the vibration of perceived separation. When we enter 5D, we understand – that this whole process had only one goal: To lead us back to ourselves and our self-love, playfulness, joy and absolute freedom. To prepare us to inspire and assist the masses in their awakening. And being in that place is so much more amazing and beautiful than anything we could have ever dreamt of.

Painting by Vera Ingeborg

The texts I share are always based on channelings I receive and/or on experiences of clients and my own. I do not claim what I share to be the ultimate truth. I encourage everyone to only take what resonates to find your own truth and wisdom. As this is universal wisdom, I do not claim any copyright. Please feel free to share this content as long as you keep its message complete so that the meaning does not get twisted. Thank you. With lots of light and love, Vera Ingeborg

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Message for Twin Flames ~ The Power Is In You ~ Jan. 6, 2017


By Sophie Gregoire, 01/06/2016

« The power is in you. The answer is in you. And you are the answer to all your searches : you are the goal. You are the answer. It’s never outside » ~ Eckhart Tolle.

I’d like to speak to you of a new energy for Twin Flames. This, is the energy of the weeks to come. I’m not saying « the energy of 2017 » because honestly nobody knows what 2017 will bring… did you know last January what 2016 would be about ?

Let’s no be mediums of our lives and probablist readers of our love destinies.

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I’d like to tell you today something very straightforward and that may seem triggering and destabilizing — STOP FOCUSING ON THIS. STOP FOCUSING ON THIS TWIN FLAME RELATIONSHIP.

Drop everything : the need to know what will happen, the desire to make this “story” unfold, your desire to make it work.

Lay everything down. Let it go, and now focus on something else. In 2017, life will meet you and you won’t need to chase life.

I can see that either you focus on making it happen or you focus on forgeting about it. Both ways, you still focus on it. Those two attitudes are simply the opposite sides of the same coin called: Hyperfocus.

Both will lead you to the same energetically, which is lack and loss of freedom. Freedom is found within, joy is found within. Your life is in your hands and you don’t need any outside event or person to make it happen.

Yes, the past months were different. Yes, because you can’t truly reach a place of freedom and joy while you still need to « heal » about things that have happened in your life. Twin Flames needed to heal, instrospect, wonder, understand about what they’d done with their counterpart. Twin Flames needed to come back to life after a few struggles, but they couldn’t do it the fast and fake way : they needed to recover by healing important wounds.

Efforts had to be made or Twin Flames would have remained stuck in pain, frustration and anger for ages — or on the opposite they couldn’t grow that much. « Negative » emotions needed to be released for sure, and that’s what has been done.

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But now, and this how it seems from all the Twin Souls I’m speaking with and counselling — this work has been done, Ladies & Gentlemen.

So now here is what I suggest : COME BACK TO YOURSELF AND EMBRACE LIFE. CREATE THE PAINTING OF YOUR OWN LIFE AND MAKE IT AS BEAUTIFUL AS YOU CAN.

Yes, some « experts » of sacred love will tell you that you can heal both of you – you and your Twin – on your own — make it happen with a magic wand from the comfort of your home, if you may. I don’t think so because as explained below, everybody has free will. I also don’t think so because – why would you devote so much time and focus to an outside situation, while you have so much to give to what is really happening in your life?

Forget about the fiction, and come back to the unfolding mysteries of your daily happening life.

Some will tell you, let them go. Some will tell you, get a stone and pray everyday for them, send love everyday to your counterpart.

I’d tell you : do something else. Just don’t do anything about this now. Don’t do anything black, anything white, just do something else. Either you force yourself to “let go” or “to love”, to “forget” or to “dream”, both is happening outside of you and this isn’t what will make you feel happy, for real.

Those approaches don’t feel aligned now.

Your happiness will simply be found in creating everyday your joy and personal power. You never needed any outside situation to be solved, to feel in bliss.

Drop the « obligation » to make it work, forget about « it’s him/her or no one else » — this isn’t true, because first life is immense and secondly life is long. Just lay all of your Twin Flames mantras, quotations, dogmas, recipes and strategies down — and come back to yourself.

Forget about « if I date someone else I postpone reunion ». Forget about « he/she is the only one that I can love ». You’re putting yourself in a cage of your own will, with such sentences. So date whomever you truly like. Just be happy, just take back all of your attention to be happy.

Life can’t be organized with rules, life only happens.

Tell me what’s your joy, and do it. Tell me where and how you built your personal power, and act on it. You never depended on any outside thing, to be happy.

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I’d like to go further by telling that, it doesn’t “all depend on you” as we may read sometimes.

The truth is, we can never change people, even the ones that we love. We can never force love — love needs two people to be.

Yes you had meditated and spoken to their higher selves in the ether many times. We had to, because we needed to see the other side of the story, we needed to understand that there was a bigger picture of this — a place where we are already united with our Twins.

However, people don’t have to be in the physical as their higher selves are. Some are like that, some aren’t. Twin Souls are very high vibrational souls, however some haven’t landed this part of themselves in the physical.

Part of these practices are now seen as fiction. Talking in the higher realms is cool, but I can tell that you deserve true and truly lived happiness, joy and harmony in this world too.

You can’t change your Twin Souls. You can’t help that much the people that aren’t you. You can’t do the work…. even you can’t decide for them, to do the work.

The important message there is that they have free will.

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Now open the window and see, how beautiful life is. Now open the window and go out in the world. Life is calling you. You’re receiving right now while reading these words the blessing for more life, fun and happiness.

Life is calling you, love is calling you.

Work on yourself, land your magic, embody your dreams, your power, your goals, become your own magic wand and see who comes. It doesn’t even matter if someone comes or not, what matters is that you find happiness on your own.

It’s not that what we had said was wrong. But everything changes. And now you deserve to love — you deserve true love, and true love in the physical even. Someone that will be as free, wild, amazing and sparkling as you are — but also someone that loves you, truly, and paint your life in golden pink.

You deserve true love and this is what I want you to know now.

You’ve reached a new space. It’s all about finding and building your personal power as 2017 starts. Everything can change but right now, the magic of life wants you to focus on yourself.

Blessings and a Happy new year! ❤ ❤

Sophie

Feel free to reach out here: https://m.facebook.com/sophie.gregoire.39?ref=bookmarks  and find out more about Twin Flames there: www.thetwinflamejourney.com if you want to talk or receive advice for you own journey.

Also, the website of my mentor that has taught me a lot about this and many other things, Becky H. : http://www.themisfityogi.com.

Message For Twin Flames ~ Trust Your Inner Knowing ~ Dec. 2, 2016


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By Sophie Gregoire, 12/02/2016

There is an important misunderstanding for Twin Flames. We’re often told to move on, let go or cut off — but this is impossible. That’s a battle that none of us has to fight or win.
Instead, I’ve learnt that what Twins “should” do is to find the “right” place that they let their counterpart occupy in their heart – it’s not and will never be about trying to erase them from there or “forget”.
The right battle is to move at your own pace towards this space where you can love freely.

– Letting Go Isn’t Needed –
The bonding that connects Twins is very strong, telepathic and almost uncontrollable — so “letting go” can’t really be achieved especially if it’s forced on you.
The Twin Flame journey is about raising your vibration in order to open up to unconditional love. So if every time there is an issue between both of you — someone, a friend, psychic or whomever (and however well-meaning they may be) tells you to “let go” and causes a deep pain in you, it’ll bring a stop on your way. You can’t maintain your vibration high anymore because you’ve been brought back to pain.
Suffering, pain and fear are on the opposite range to unconditional love, trust and faith — from a vibrational standpoint.
“Letting go” isn’t required and doesn’t really means much on this path — what you truly need, is to become detached from the outcome. And this will only happen on its own time, when you’ll be ready.
Raising your vibration must be your primary goal. The rest will unfold as a consequence of it.
Actually, we don’t decide to “let go” of people, we can’t force this kind of things. We’re able to move past attachment and be happy no matter what happens on the outside when our vibration is high enough — and not the opposite.
We never “release” our counterparts, or the people – soul mates, deep friends, ex partners, family – that have meant a lot to us. We release or let go of patterns of relating or ways of being in our relationships – not of people.
So if you were advised to forget your Twin, please know that this was never truly needed. There are other ways to move forward – while maintaining opened possibilities for the future.

– So, Why “Professionals” Say This? –
When readers tell you to let go, move forward or forget, it’s because you are hanging on too tight — you are still too attached to the outcome. You have not yet found your balance, the successful middle ground between love and detachment.
These people or readers have tried to detach you from your expectations for the future in order to make you find balance — balance between love and freedom.
Imagine a slider. You had too many expectations, you were getting too close and attached energetically… so the Universe has found a way to tell you to pull away completely, so that you finally land a at middle ground place — the one where this kind of love may thrive from.
This has first caused pain in you but ultimately more detachment was required.

– What Does The Final Line Look Like? –
We never truly “let go” of such a connection. Either we’re obsessed by it or we manage at our own pace to love in a detached way.
Twin Flames say a Big Yes to loving freely and being detached. This is what happens when we truly find our own joy and power, so the outside becomes less and less important — that’s why this path is more than anything else a Journey to the Self.
The truth is, Twins never “forget” about one another. They simply find enough strength and joy inside, to live happily no matter what happens on the outside.
We simply learn to love our counterparts no matter what has happened. This, is not “letting go” or “forgetting” — it’s about seeing things from another perspective, forgiving, trusting that a new version of love could happen in the future and working at the same time on becoming detached from this hope.
Hope and faith yes — but detachment to the outcome, and happiness no matter what.
In other words, what’s needed is finding balance between : love, hope, peace, harmony, coming closer energetically, seeing the beauty of it, being grateful AND wanting it to happen now, knowing when and how, developing new expectations, trying to make things happen or to bend life to our will which ultimately leads to attachment & impatience.
Because the truth is, whenever we develop hope again, we’re tempted to form expectations at the same time. In other words we get too close to our Twin. So ultimately we become disappointed if things don’t unfold as we expected, and we pull away once again from it – because coming too close while seeing that nothings happens or changes, brings too much pain.
In time you’ll be more and more able to love in a detached way — you’ll love no matter what happens or doesn’t happen, no matter what they say or don’t say, no matter where they’re and with whom.
This is when love becomes magic — you love them freely and you let them be, without chasing or running after.
Twin Flames have come here to show that there is a possibility for love beyond the paradox of love = constraints, attachment, fear of losing, desire to keep them around you and knowing what’s going to happen in the future.
Even if Twins experience together the usual kind of “romantic love”, they’re expected to become able to feel strongly for their other half — without expectations and attachments.
Twin Souls are “committed” to each other but they don’t need to say it. They’ve agreed to come together in this life but this requires no words, no rings, no schedules or timelines. It’s a commitment of the higher realms. 

– Listen Above All To Your Inner Knowing –
On the spiritual path either between Twins or more generally, nothing “works” when it’s forced on our souls. Growth happens on its own time depending on our own experiences, past and personalities.
Your goal is to maintain your vibration high, no matter what is being said to you. However it’s your and only your own responsibility to ask for advice or not, to give attention to what’s being told to you or not.
You’re a soldier, you’re ascending. You keep moving, bravely. You’re shielded, you’re protected by the ones that came before you. Whenever something feels wrong, you keep walking — you trust yourself and you don’t look back.
Because, personal growth is about self-empowerment… — how could you “ascend” if you trust and listen more to what other people tell you, than to what you intuitively know and believe?
Trust yourself, Ladies and Gentlemen. This is your easiest and fastest way to joy and freedom — and this more than any other thing, will lead you to your Twin.
The most important is to feel at peace with your Twin, no matter where they’re and what they’re doing. The vibration of harmony and peace is the only one that can truly bring long-lasting joy on this journey — no matter what is in the physical.
Peace and harmony between you and them is something that you already have available within, you only need to find it again — and don’t be afraid to say No to whatever some outside energies come your way and affect this feeling.
Let me sum that up…your goal is to find peace, harmony and to deepen your love with your Twin — without falling back again in wanting it now and drowning in expectations. Because this would ultimately lead you to feelings of disappointment or resentment if it doesn’t unfold as you thought… and this would cause a new cycle of separation – either in the physical or in the ethereal realms. 

Just love in a free way, new unfoldments have already started I’m hearing…
Blessings! ❤
Sophie

 

Twin Flames…this is for you…Nov. 26, 2016


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Are you a Twin Flame? Then …this message is for you as a guide to help you release any doubts or hesitation you may have about BEing with your “other”. So…please read, feel about this in your heart, and…

InJoy!

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Message For Twin Flames ~ All That Has Happened Was An Organized Play of Love ~ Nov. 16, 2016


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By Sophie Gregoire, 11/16/2016

There is a huge shift in the air for Divine Couples and Twin Flames. This shift is unstoppable now.

– The Feminine Is Rising –
The Divine Feminine is remembering who she is. There is almost a path that only Her spirit knows — but it communicates with her consciousness more and more, so she understands that it’s not really “unknown” and isn’t afraid anymore.
Her intuition and Higher forces are leading her way. For Twin Flames, their Masculine counterpart’s spirit is helping too. He is opening doors and comforting her when she takes steps — even if this doesn’t happen in the “tangible world”. This comes in a very subtle way and all Twins are now asked to listen to the voice of their counterpart. It feels like new but it isn’t and was always available along the way — but they weren’t ready yet to believe in what they could hear.

The gifts of the Sacred Feminine are slowly unveiling and this step is key to the next “phases” of the Twins’ journey — as Sacred Lovers only meet and reunite for good where their vibrations are high enough. As the Divine Feminine is building strength, finding faith, trust and surrender, her heart opens and it becomes strong and serene enough to receive the Essence of the Divine Masculine — which she doesn’t fear anymore.

– The Lessons of The Twin Flame Journey –
For Twin Flames, this is truly not the time to abandon the idea and dream of a Reunion because the past was “too hard” or “too much”. Most of the time this period of time and especially this fall have asked us to completely surrender to not knowing, not seeing and not hearing from the Beloved.
That was meant to happen : it was the murder of the 3D’s type of relating (electronic devices). The motto was: if you can embrace to love in higher dimensions, then you can be an emblem of living in the 5th dimension. On the opposite if you stay stuck in 3D issues, worries and fears — that love will never “work out” because it wants you to rise and meet the Beloved in higher realms.

That was meant to be as a test from the Universe : if you can handle the lack of tangible connection and take up the challenge of discovering and being happy in this new one, you’ve mastered yourself enough and stepped out of neediness, daily smothering support and codependency. 

Even if this can be hard to believe sometimes, I can tell you that the higher selves of Masculine Twins have never let us down. Still, Feminine counterparts seem to be waiting, in a contemplative and somehow outside the world’s way, wondering : when this step of separation and personal growth is going to end ? It will.
I now recall a meditation that I’ve done a while ago. Many people were running a race and I was sitting on a bench, dreaming and wondering when to start running and also where to go.
« Why aren’t you running with us ? » my Twin stopped next to me and asked.
« I’m heart broken » I answered.
« But we love you ! » he responded. He left to go back to the race and I couldn’t move from the bench.

Then he came back a few minutes later and said : « I’ll never let you down ».
I said « I know », and I started to run with the others.

This, works for all of us. All Twin Flames. All that has happened was an illusion. The separation itself is an illusion. If you communicate with your Twin’s soul, you’ll see that everything is fine.
So, what has been going on ? We’ve embraced the void, we were asked to get ready because growth was needed on the Feminine side too. This couldn’t happen without truly falling down, reading our depths and our shadows for good. We needed to face it all – all that we didn’t want to see – and in a very short amount of time. 

There is no tremendous growth and inner healing without extreme and intense releases. There are no intense releases without truly seeing what hurts, without stopping to keep busy in order to avoid to feel. There are no intense releases without pain, tears, fears and…. separation.
The truth is, the Divine Feminine couldn’t rise that fast and that beautifully if counterparts had always been together.

All this was an organized play of love. All this was already decided, already written. It was meant to be that way or Twin Flames couples could never become the example of the New Paradigm — as they will be soon. Twin Flames couples are supposed to be the bridge between the Old and the New, tangible examples of couples, families, children and houses that « work » even and precisely because they don’t follow the old rules and society’s expectations. So, how could such couples exist in the tangible world if they were still behaving from their ego ?
All this needed to be destroyed. That’s why we – Twin Flames couples – have been hard on each other some times. Nobody could do what he / she has done. The pain that he / she has caused so that you could truly face yourself : nobody else in the world could.
Nobody could make us pull away all the layers that prevented from seeing the jewel at our core. Counterparts were chosen exactly because they unconsciously know exactly what to do so that all the masks fall and all past hurts (childhood namely) come back up to our consciousness to be ultimately released.

– Strong Souls Were Required To Take All the Steps And Finally Behave From Their Heart –
Some will tell you that love doesn’t hurt. I understand this statement but it couldn’t apply at that time for Twin Flames. Often times, loves protects but not always in a good way. Codependency patterns in particular prevents people to see the greyest parts of themselves, they protect them from seeing the truth, they put a bandage on their scars but the truth is, the wounds aren’t healed. Their healing is simply postponed or never addressed.
It’s like : you don’t want to hear a story so you throw the book away because you know that it will hurt you, challenge you, take you to places within where you don’t want to go. Even if reading the book is hard, reading that book is the solution — because once it’s done and the pain faced, healed and released, it never comes back.

That’s what Twin Flames Ascension is all about. We couldn’t have risen that high if things had unfolded smoothly.
We are meant to be examples of the New order that’s why strong souls are needed. We’ve have tested and we’ve mastered the test.

Those souls are strong and have been chosen because they could do it. The Universe never presents challenges that one can’t overcome. We were chosen because They knew that we could only succeed, that we could heal loads & everything in the name of Love.
Such a tremendous healing was required because we needed to pull out all the layers and ultimately behave from our core — which is our heart. This, for both Feminine and Masculine counterparts. 

All the negative layers of guilt, fear of love and opening up for love, fear of giving or receiving, fear of finding “the right one that would understand any of our thoughts”, fear of living in joy, inability to believe that “true love” could find us or that we could be “up to it” — all these negative beliefs were meant to be deleted from our minds. Also, the “I can’t live without him / her” couldn’t come on board because we needed to find out our own power and see that no human being is unable to live in joy BECAUSE love was taken away from them.
We needed to experience that love & freedom comes from within. We needed to see that Unconditional love can’t be given until we aren’t entirely at peace with ourselves. We needed to face that we don’t need any outside bandage if we can heal and be happy on our own.
We are on this path because we can. You are strong enough to experience Reunion or you wouldn’t be reading these lines.

We’ve now reached the blank page state, it’s all white and empty. All can be restarted a-new. Before was too early because before would have meant settling on a too-low-vibrations’ ground.

The soul’s connection that’s now becoming tangible and perceivable is the only thing that truly matters and that shall be developed. This communication is unbreakable and can be found anytime, no matter what. This guidance melts with your own to become one.
There is nothing to worry about, think, try to explain or wonder. 

Things will unfold on their own now.

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